Mh...I don't think my english is the better way to express what I'd love to say about this, but please forgive me if I'll be unsuccessful!
Ehm...so...I don't see why you have to say "mika, I don't care if you are gay". Of course, if is a way to say "I don't hate you if you'd be gay", of course I agree, but I don't want to think that some homophobic stupid crap can listen to such beautiful music, so I'll erase this option soon.
For the rest, why I should not care? I care with a lot of things! The music he likes to listen to, the way he thinks, also the dress he dresses, the book he love, so why not his sexual preferences?
Of course I'm not gonna FORCE HIM to tell me if he's gay or not,
Of course I'm not gonna STOP LISTEN to him if he should be straight.
The music is the main dish, and all the other things (books, cds, movies, sex) is only a contour...but...I LIKE also fried potatoes or salad, so, WHY I'm supposed to don't eat them?!
The way I'll react to his declaration "I'm gay" or "I like wuthering heights" or "I like cien anos de soledad" is not "OMFG, HE IS GAY!!!" or "OMFG, HE LIKES WUTHERING HEIGHTS!!!!!" (and the same for marquez's book), but I think this depends from person to person...and if one shoul react like this...who I am to tell him/her he/she's wrong? After all, it's only enthusiasm!
I'm gay, I'm proud of who I'm, and I like to tell to everyone I talk to, exactly as I talk to the music I listen, and any other things related to me...I don't think I'm so wrong!
and, when Michael Stipe said he was gay, I was very happy, but only because I'm gonna marry that man...don't call me idiot, please... I scream to him "MIIIIIKEEEE! I LUUUUUV UUUUUUU" and he answered "Oh, I love u too!"..don't take me away from my precious illusions! [© by Alanis Morissette]. Am I so bad only for this? I think bad things in life are others!
Please, don't tell me that this is not the place for talking about Mika's sexuality, I'm only triyng to explain why I not agree with this! ^^
And, after all,
I love you all! ^^