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  1. Hello everyone! Thank you so much for your replies. I enjoy reading about people's thoughts on this. I do think some people have misinterpreted what this thread is about- it isn't speculating whether Mika is gay, but instead it's about people's reactions to hearing news about his sexuality and how they might really feel about it. annnndd moving on. In response to my first post about it mattering to me if mika is gay, this was said. i DO NOT like being called a narrow minded, shallow, backwods, ignorant person, nor am I one such person. This wasn't necessary. Despite my unhappiness with that post, I do, in fact, like to read other people perspectives, so keep the comments coming! Thanks again, - a mika fan
  2. hi everyone, I'm not new, I've been reading the boards for a looong time but this is my first post. I don't expect you to be welcoming after readng it, but I would appreciate if you thought about what I am saying. I've noticed there are a lot of different threads about mika's sexuality. it seems everytime one pops up about mika truthfully being gay, people become quite defensive and say it does not matter or it's not true. I think that if threads started about mika truthfully being straight, people wouldn't be as upset or discredit the source. this leads me to believe that it matters to some people whether mika is gay or not. those who become defensive upon anyone saying he's gay probably want him to be straight. I know I (and probably you too) would still buy all his music and go to any concert possible of mika even if he turns out to be gay, but it would slightly alter my feelings for him. I think the reason people are reluctant to admit if it matters is because it could come across as being shallow. but it's just human! as humans (especially single humans) it's natural that we would want someone as talented and attractive as mika for ourselves. it's only expected. for the ladies, him being straight makes him slightly more attainable ( or course for the men, the opposite applies). I realize there are some out there who honestly don't care one way or another if mika is gay, but I also realize there are those out there who do care. I don't expect anyone to admit whether mika being gay matters to them or not. It just aggravates me to see people I know who care saying it doesn't matter anytime a post is made about mika being gay. if you you dont want to admit it DOES matter, just don't respond to those posts at all. this post was slightly hurried and I dont know if I got my point got across at all. I AM a mika fan, and it matters to me if mika is gay. It wouldnt change my feelings for him as an artist, but on a personal level it would make a difference. I currently have a massive crush on mika and would be a little discouraged to learn he's gay. again, as a performer, i would like him just as much, but on the personal level I wouldn't be quite so obsessed. I hope you understand what I'm saying and think about it, thank you for your time, and I appreciate any reactions. -a mika fan
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