Hi, i can completely see your pointand agree mostly, i too would be secretly very gutted if it did come out that he had a girlfriend/boyfriend. However i also feel i would like him to be happy more than anything else, and if did meet or has met someone, i wouldnt stop liking him or anything like that because of it, and i would be pleased to see him happy.
I would also like to think that he has chosen to keep that part of his life a private for other reasons that just to keep his fans happy.