and ... music is just music, record is just a record
it's just a way passing time, a better method than going down to the local pub, as far as i concern.
For me, if you tell me you are listening to Rihanna or you are listening to Bjork, it's the same, i won't judge you by what kind of music you are listening to.
My friends back home, one is listening to all sh!tty cantonese pop music, the other one has been caught up all the hot new bands from england. But I only hang out with the former one cos she is kind, nice and funny ... well, if you know what i mean