My take on this is that I myself have to find time to be alone and separate from my husband. We both work from home, workout together, we travel together, and play tennis together (for example) so all of our time is spent in the same places and so I seek out ways to entertain just myself and give myself the space I need to feel like I have a life/interests detached from him as well as with him. I could be misinterpreting but that's my feedback if it helps