Sivan Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 yeah so he is probably like 20... LOL! i dunno...never talked to him... we just LOOKED at eachother few times... he doesnt even learn in my class.... he is in a class across from me when i have my ART one... i DONT know how to start talking to him and thought u guys might have good ideas Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 I don't know if I'm the right person to help you, since I wouldn't really know what to do in your situation lol. I'm sooooo shy! Maybe you could try the "direct solution", go straight to him and say "hi! my name is...". Or ask him for the time, but that's cliché Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivan Posted September 24, 2008 Author Share Posted September 24, 2008 I don't know if I'm the right person to help you, since I wouldn't really know what to do in your situation lol. I'm sooooo shy!Maybe you could try the "direct solution", go straight to him and say "hi! my name is...". Or ask him for the time, but that's cliché lol yeah im shy to.... i doubt i could do the direct way i need something good to ask him or i dunno..... !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Yeah, but what? "Can I please borrow a sheet of paper from you?" "Have I not seen you before?" "Don't you have a sister called blah blah?" That's kind of delicate... lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivan Posted September 24, 2008 Author Share Posted September 24, 2008 Yeah, but what? "Can I please borrow a sheet of paper from you?" "Have I not seen you before?" "Don't you have a sister called blah blah?" That's kind of delicate... lol yeah thats the thing... he dont study in MY class so i cant ask for a paper... and the second one... he KNOWS ive seen him cause we keep looking at eachother! LMAO hmmm maybe ill be braver next week...tho i doubt it... i better go to sleep now... maybe have some sweet dreams Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Maybe you'll find your solution in a dream? Good night!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalas Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Give him a compliment. "nice shoes!" or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Sky Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Maybe he thinks....haven't I see that face before??? Isn't she the girl off Mikafanclub??? OMG is it really her??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Go up to him, appear confident, and find something about him that you can compliment. People stop by and compliment other people all the time on their clothes and hair, anything, so you won't come off as creepy. Or, (and I know it's hard, I really do) but if you just go up and introduce yourself, it'll show confidence, and confidence is HOT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Maybe the compliment thing is a good idea! Or there's the passive solution: wait for him to come first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artsyfartsy17 Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 My brother's too scared to ask girls out. If he's got that mindset, they'll never have a conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cath85 Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 just try to start an innocent conversation. like I have art class now, what class do you have now? or that kind of stuff. ask him what teacher he has etc. a nice everyday conversation would be best I think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lindemfc Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 I would say 'Hi handsome, wanna date? ^^' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoots14 Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 (edited) ... Edited December 29, 2009 by zoots14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 I'm trying to imagine myself doing that: "Erm.... *blushes like hell*. H... Hi?... Erm.... Well erm... My n... name is erm Emileeeeee! Erm Emilie. How are y...you? *cough*" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalas Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 I would say 'Hi handsome, wanna date? ^^' great! 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nico_collard Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Hmmmm... I don't know... I guess Arts said it all... be confident, maybe you can see something on him (like a cool t shirt or something) and comment on how great it is... I guess what you need to do is find an excuse to talk to him... Failing that, you could start stalking him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyD Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Excuse me - do you know who Mika is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 perfect!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FREDDIESDOUBLE Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Ask him for a coffee ... he will either say yes orrr no!!! Go for it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daydreambeliever Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 I have the same problem Sivan! ...Except I've never caught the guy looking at me. He always has his headphones in though, so that kind of sucks. Anyway, I agree with the others. Compliment him on something. And remember to smile. Smiling makes you seem more approachable. Something I need to work on. According to my friends, I almost always look bored or mad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BonjourMika1990 Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Oh my, this has happened to me more than once See, I'm always sitting on the floor outside of my class rooms cuz the doors aren't always open for us...so we all wait outside... If you happen to be running into him...like even if its just going into your classes ask what time it is or something... compliment his shoes, anything lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyD Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 Oh yes compliment his shoes!!!! It works EVERYTIME! Just ask Lucy -- as SOON as Mika came out.... she BUSTED out -- 'I LIKE YOUR SHOES' --- he was like THANKS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivan Posted September 24, 2008 Author Share Posted September 24, 2008 Give him a compliment. "nice shoes!" or something Oh yes compliment his shoes!!!! It works EVERYTIME! Just ask Lucy -- as SOON as Mika came out.... she BUSTED out -- 'I LIKE YOUR SHOES' --- he was like THANKS ok few of u said that and he always wear like flipflops... LOL! so dont think there is much to compliment about he dress kinda weird... but i it... lol Maybe he thinks....haven't I see that face before??? Isn't she the girl off Mikafanclub??? OMG is it really her??? he dress like he would be on this forum Go up to him, appear confident, and find something about him that you can compliment. People stop by and compliment other people all the time on their clothes and hair, anything, so you won't come off as creepy. Or, (and I know it's hard, I really do) but if you just go up and introduce yourself, it'll show confidence, and confidence is HOT. i missed a chance few times... when he set or walked by me... and when i finally decided i will try... he wasnt close to me grr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sivan Posted September 24, 2008 Author Share Posted September 24, 2008 just try to start an innocent conversation. like I have art class now, what class do you have now? or that kind of stuff. ask him what teacher he has etc. a nice everyday conversation would be best I think i will try if ill see him close to me I would say 'Hi handsome, wanna date? ^^' yeah i thought about that LOL...DOUBT i could but i sooo want! Totally agreed. Just do it! Ahhhhhh.... if I could only turn back time to my college days! yeah it reminds me of how i was in high school.... i could NEVER sau anything and i had loads of crushes...lol I'm trying to imagine myself doing that: "Erm.... *blushes like hell*. H... Hi?... Erm.... Well erm... My n... name is erm Emileeeeee! Erm Emilie. How are y...you? *cough*" yeah i would turn totaly red... Excuse me - do you know who Mika is? he might know... he allways has headphones on his neck...big ones.. and he wear colourfull clothes Ask him for a coffee ... he will either say yes orrr no!!! Go for it!! im a chicken!!! waaaaa I have the same problem Sivan! ...Except I've never caught the guy looking at me. He always has his headphones in though, so that kind of sucks. Anyway, I agree with the others. Compliment him on something. And remember to smile. Smiling makes you seem more approachable. Something I need to work on. According to my friends, I almost always look bored or mad. yeah i dont know whats up with all the times we looked at eacother... he might have noticed me looking at him and drooling and thats why he looks... OR MAYBE MAYBE he likes me to!? i really have no idea... the first time i saw him it was like crish from first sight... and we both looked at eachother like that.... weird.... Oh my, this has happened to me more than once See, I'm always sitting on the floor outside of my class rooms cuz the doors aren't always open for us...so we all wait outside... If you happen to be running into him...like even if its just going into your classes ask what time it is or something... compliment his shoes, anything lol ILL TRY!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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