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    * read at your own peril *

     

     

    Ok, I have had as much fun on this thread as any other person, and I find it hilarious and know that it's all fun and games, but I must admit that the direction that the discussion is taking is sort of bothering me. I'll elaborate.

     

    It looks like this topic has made quite a few people voice their opinions on how they view Mika, and it's highlighting the feelings of posessiveness that some have towards him.

     

    Many people have said that they would be sad if it was confirmed that he's going out with Adele, or that they would prefer it if he's actually gay and therefore they would find it easier to deal with...Others have just attacked her for the sake of it (and obviously becuase they think that she may be with him), and others have said that "he deserves better". This just makes me wonder about many things.

     

    I do know that many people posting this are quite young, and I know that they may not fully realise what they are saying, or change their minds later, but I can't help but think that this is taking a far too fantastic tint.

     

    Some people have even spoken about "competition" if he goes out with women. I'm sorry, but what competition exactly? What makes you think that he'd go out with you if he had the chance? I really don't mean this in a nasty way, but I think that we need to get a grip on reality here and realise a few things:

     

    None of us actually KNOWS Mika. this means that maybe, if you knew him, you wouldn't want to go out with him either.

     

    How can we claim to know what or who is "best for him"? We don't know what he's looking for in a partner. Why not just leave him to it?

     

    Mika himself says that he doesn't want to discuss his private life. How would he feel if he knew that people now are dissing someone who is possibly his good friend, just because they are jealous of her?

    And more crazily, jealous because of some unrealistic idea that "they" may someday have the chance to get together with him?

    Wouldn't this make him feel angry and sad?

     

    Do we really want to be fans like that, that have abnormal and unrealistic personal expectations of him? I don't think so. Or at least I don't want to be part of that movement.

    We can expect what we like of him when it comes to his music and performances, but we can't expect (or demand!!!) that he comes out explaining and clarifying if or who he's dating. Please, can you see how mad this is?

     

    And if he comes out and says "yes, I am with her", then what? You'd be even more unhappy then (as some have already said) so what is in it for you?

    I really think that some people should try and re-arrange their perception of him, realise that he's a stranger and a distant, untouchable prospect in a romantic sense, and try and move on and focus your romantic attentions on real life boys. It's much healthier.

     

    As I said, I'm not saying this to be nasty or to bitch against anyone, but I really think that we should start cutting all this posessive craze and get back to reality.

     

     

    i for one do agree with you there i think everyone is getting to carried away, we all need to respect mika's privacy.

     

    100%mikafan:mf_rosetinted:

  2. lol, you are clearly new to the forum (WELCOME, btw!)

    This forum contains a lot of satire. Sure, we've had TWO sources where Adele admits she chatted Mika up, and we've had pictures of them snapped together and stuff, we basically put the two together and well, the rest is MFC imagination!

     

    If we see an article with Mika in it, and he's being quoted, we don't believe it straight away. Everything we see in the media is taken with a pinch of salt and we don't truly believe it until Mika says it out of his own mouth (and even then Mika tells a little white lie! Eg. the EP!)

     

    The forum has a lot of people with very active imaginations and we act on it. It's just pure satire and a form of entertainment for us. Mika knows this, he reads this forum and even owns it. He PAID for it. He doesn't want to change anything. He's happy with the way it is because he knows we're not serious. :thumb_yello:

     

     

    lol no need to explain i can see you are all good with your imaginations i find it quite hilarious to be honest. mfc you all rock:punk::mf_rosetinted:100%mikafan

  3. to all you mika fans think real hard about it, i don't think mika would be impress that we beileve everything that written about him the way i see it don't beileve everything you hear unless you have heard it from the horses mouth.Well everything adele might of said about mika might of being taking out of contex you all should know what the media is like especially in the uk.

     

    p.s well a guy and a girl can be friends without any hidden agenda i rest my case.

     

    100% mikafan.

  4. that hasn't really happen to me mainly because when i first saw mika perfoming grace kelly on top of the pops i was like who is he where is he from i was mesmerised by him i did not really pay attention to the song at first, then i relise he was singing a song about one of my idols grace kelly, then i research him on youtube and listened to relax i was diffineatly taking in and ever since i have being addicted to his songs i fell in love with his music ever since.

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