Meha

Sweetie, Mika doesn't hate you! Trust me, you're not the first person to touch his hair, and you certainly won't be the last. He might not love it when people want to touch his hair - he probably can't understand why on earth anyone would want to - but he's been on the receiving end of far worse than that.

 

He's talked of having people stick their hands down his pants at parties, and I seem to remember pictures of people groping his rear end at festivals; things like that make what you did seem so minor in comparison. So don't beat yourself up! *hug*

 

And, feel free to post more often! Just jump on in to a conversation - we're a welcoming bunch!

Thank you *Hug* You have no idea how much that means to me. You've managed to reassure me. Thanx a lot for that, i really appreciate it

Just to add to the thread: His hair was nice and soft and his "handling"(?) well the way he touched my arm was really gentle.

Hey, i'm called Meha, i tend to come on MFC nearly everyday but don't really post anything. Sorry if im interrupting a conversation

I was just wondering if you could help me with something? this topic seems most suitable to write this in.

Basically in November I went to a Mika concert in Manchester (I'm totally obsessed with the guy but this was only the 2nd concert id been to). A few days before i had lost a very close family member. So i was really upset, but because it was a Mika concert, my family and friends said it would help me cheer up. At the end i ended up meeting Mika but i was crying and could not actually speak because i was in shock that i was actually meeting him and naturally upset due to the circumstances. So he like touched my arm and told me not to cry, and then signed a thing for me, then he touched my arm again and asked me if i was ok. But i just literally couldnt speak out of shock. Then suddenly my mouth opened and something inside me said "Can i touch your hair" and he said something about his hair being dirty and greasy but then my mind went blank, and i can't remember whether he said yes or no but i ended up touching his hair anyway.

I'm so sure he backed away and then when i moved i realised that i shouldnt have done that. I dont know what possessed me! But i was wondering if any of you could help me...i'd really love to apologise to Mika because i just think he must probably hate me. its just something i feel i have to do and i havent been able to stop thinking about my stupidity since the concert. I know that sounds pretty stupid but its just the way i am. So do any of you know how i could go about apologising to him. Is it wise to do it after a concert? I really don't know what to do, and i really don't want him to hate me!

Sorry for going on so much but this is the first time ive actually mentioned it to anyone! and i really do want to apologise. I know what i want to say to him i just don't know how to go about trying to say it. :S Any ideas would be gratefully accepted xx

Yes, I've heard him say that - someone can probably whizz up a link to the very occasion.

 

But, random girl you asked and didn't grab.

 

And we'd all LOVE to have done it.

 

(in a motherly way of course )

Does anyone by any chance know this link?

Id be really grateful :]

Well he was standing a bit of a distance away so i just stroked it a little. it was a really quick motion.

i guess it was wierd asking to touch his hair but i cudnt think of anything else!

but maybe he dusnt like people touching his hair because he did move his head back a little so that i cudnt like touch it properly. And now im worrying that maybe he did say no and i didnt hear. but he did laugh after i touched it. im so confused!

oh dear i could hit myself!

Oh but he was so nice, hes an angel!

It just came out of my mouth!

i cant believe i did it!

But it was soft!

I want to apologise to him really but theres no way of doing so

[quote= and some randon girl asking to touch mika's hair with he replied ewwwwwwwwww it's all dirty and sweaty !! no way sorry !!! (ha ha )

Haha erm...yeh i was the "random girl" lol. Oh dear.

But he didn't say no. He sed it was all dirty and sweaty and stuff then i touched it and he was like "oooh" and i was like "its so nice!"

Which it was. Hes so adorable.

I didnt realise it was wrong to ask to touch his hair...

"Girl in the groove with the big bust on"

"wait till your momma and your papa's gone"

:]

x

Thank you :] x

Hey everyone! :]

I'm new here! I joined because i've managed to get an obsession with Mika! I love him! He's so fantastic! I'm so excited about going to see him in concert later this month!

Anywayz must go, you all seem like friendly people, will be nice to talk :]

Meha x