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    The "Looking For Something" Thread...

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    I wonder ıf there is a thread for this expression of Meeks(I don't know how to describe it :biggrin2: ) I'm kind of obsessed with that look... :roftl: That ''So I tried a little Freddy'' face... :naughty:

     

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    He's go-ot hairy arms! He's go-ot hairy arms!

    I'm kinda obsessed with hair on his arms and chest (which I hardly ever see, damn you!) and his beard and his eye brows and his lashes and his hair and :lmfao:

     

    This photo is so picture-perfect! :wub2:

    MIKA's Finger Nipping Fan Club

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    Oh I'm on vocation right now for 4 days ( and yes I 'm still here )but I promise to post here as much as possible...:wink2:

     

    Come back hunting soon... We need thouse pics! :roftl:

     

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    I won't be going anywhere really. I'll still be lurking around, but I'm swamped in work and have to time to hunt (read: have no time to hunt but still hunts and falls more and more behind with work :naughty:)

    Vote for MIKA

    in Mika News and Press

    Posted

    Well done, everyone! :thumb_yello::thumb_yello::thumb_yello:

     

    Numbers are going up and the positions are still good. Lets try to get MIKA #10 at Musician of the Month, shall we!? @RyanKellyCT is moving ahead fast but let's try to catch him.

    I love you baby, but face it he's Mika

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted · Edited by Siu

    been there only once i think and dont wanna go through it again... but i know i will someday...

     

    Getting hurt again? Be wise and take your time to choose well (this is my grandmother talking, not me :roftl:)

     

     

    But the rythm of the posts on MFC is really fast and a hubby would be lost :naughty: it would take ages to recognize someone only with the messages...

     

    Mine is smart, he'd start with the introductions thread and move on from there. He knows when I dug out the gold recently and he would find me in no time. :wink2:

    I love you baby, but face it he's Mika

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    No challenge for him to stalk me here as long as he knows my name :naughty:

    Huge mistake.. :blink:

     

    I could also have thought twice and choose a less distinctive name. But what's done is done!

     

    ok... thx mum :naughty: But im affraid to fall in love... love hurts... :aah: the reason for why ive stayed away from men/not to get too close for so many years. Just been pretty hard lately with the friend i would run of with :aah:

     

    Love doesn't hurt. What hurts is when you find out there was no love to start with. By love I mean respect and trust and the rest of the ingredients that go in the recipe.

    I love you baby, but face it he's Mika

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    i haven't read much of the thread, so i don't know what they write - but unless they have a pic of themselves in their signature/avatar, it's not very likely that anyone would recognize them. :dunno: in any case, i guess people who are married are old enough to know what they're doing, and if they "get caught", they'll learn from it. :bleh: i don't think one should protect people from themselves, because that means they'll never learn. :wink2:

    anyway, maybe your post makes some people think, so they can edit their post(s) if they realize that it might be a danger. :wink2:

     

    If someone has a real stalker for husband and he knew his wife spend a lot of time in MFC, he would find a way of narrowing down the members of whom he believes that one might be his wife. In my now 300 (! :biggrin2:) posts I have revealed quite a many details about me and if my hubby ever wanted to stalk me here, he'd definitely find me rather easily. He wouldn't do that, though, or if he would, he'd be smart enough to keep it from me. And if he didn't do that either, we'd have a serious case! But were happily married, so I have nothing to worry :mf_rosetinted:. Besides, I have never written anything to compromise myself, only what I think and feel and if he REALLY wanted to know that, thinking that knowing is better than not knowing, then hey! I would not stop him!

    I love you baby, but face it he's Mika

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    My Mika addiction is just a short term help, very short term..

    I'm just looking for my day-to-day oxygen - omg I feel so pathetic :naughty:

     

    I don't think you should feel pathetic or maybe I'm saying that only to comfort myself, because I totally share your feelings. A MIKA a day keeps my sorrows away :roftl:. I'm referring to his songs, of course :wink2:. One of my friends once said she listens to MIKA when she's blue, it helps her cheer up again. I do it in order to avoid withdrawal symptoms.

     

    Maybe I'm just in the very early stage of MIKAttraction - next week will be 3 months since discovering him. I'm not complaining, because it doesn't make me sad, I get my everyday things more or less done. Actually I'm happier than I was before because I feel alive again. I've had little flings like that in my head a few times before (which maybe doesn't make me the best wife, but I think I'm not alone in the boat, but sitting there with a large number of other women. And men) but I can't compare these to what I'm feeling now. Previous cases have been with men I've known in RL which has been one reason why these have not lasted, because A) they've turned out to be less perfect than my illusions :wink2: and B) I'm not looking for any trouble in my RL.

     

    The MIKAland in my head is a place I go (maybe too often, if you asked my husband) to find my peace. He stands for so many things I believe in but have not had the courage to admit. One thing I've learned from him is that you should not limit yourself and you should not be ashamed of what you do or believe in.

    I love you baby, but face it he's Mika

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted · Edited by Siu

    :roftl: i love this expression! mika, the house-trained pet...

     

    A good husband - isn't he a "house-trained pet" anyway and I mean it with the biggest respect I have for my husband.

     

    "Thought you found the man you wanted

    Until you turn him into something new"

     

    It's amazing how MIKA in his songs has put my thoughts, which I tend to express in a rather lengthy and clumsy way, in just a few prefect lines. A marriage or partnership is all about making compromises, finding the "golden mean". In the process you change yourself and you change the other person and sometimes the result does not satisfy you and you opt to split up. I've gone through the process and I'm happy with the result and that's why I would think twice before eloping with MIKA. Or with anyone, for that matter. MIKA has flaws, that's for sure, we just don't know about these. We see the side of him he has chosen to show but I'm positive that the moment we started living with him would be the moment we started changing him. We have this illusion of what he's like and we'd want to turn him into the vision.

     

    I doubt there is anyone reading the thread admitting that (s)he :wink2: would be happy with the MIKA the way he is. And this is absolutely normal. And this is also why relationships like that are doomed to fail. We fancy a public figure, we have an illusion of him, we by chance get together, he's not like we've imagined in real life, we'd want to turn him into our illusion, he wouldn't change (not as much as we'd like to) and we'd split up. It's more difficult with people we think we know well (read: have created an illusion of) before we actually meet them. When you get to know an "ordinary" person you have no expectations (or you have a lot less of these) and you learn to know him based on what you see and thus you have a clearer picture of what he actually is.

     

    Thinking of MIKA we see him as a gorgeous-looking, sensitive, friendly, witty .... man with a fabulous smile and the most perfect curls (and again so on) and we tend to think that this IS him also in RL but the fact is that we don't know.

     

    OK, I'm starting to repeat myself already so I put a full stop, but I think you understand what I'm saying.

    The "Looking For Something" Thread...

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    I am looking for... active voters and a way to revive the voting thread (http://www.mikafanclub.com/forums/showthread.php?t=11956&highlight=vote&page=106). Last night I posted a message there (see below) calling people to vote for MIKA but this thread doesn't have many visitors. So if anyone has good ideas on how to make the traffic in the thread busier, let me know!

     

    I was also thinking about making access to active contests easier for people by having direct links handy ... well somewhere, but I think it's a question to be discussed with the mods!?

     

    Current status:

    MikaFanClub #5 in Best Fansite ACCOMPLISHED!!!

    MIKA #10 in Musician of the Month - ACCOMPLISHED!!!

    MIKA #14 in Follow Me - 20 votes less than present #14

     

    Two out of three is very good! And we had a lot of votes today!

     

     

     

    Now I have this dream:

     

    What if we had a new goal – MIKA #1 in all the possible categories?

     

    We are a long way from #1, but if we worked as a team, I'm sure we could do it. There are two reasons why I think we should at least give it a try:

     

    Firstly

    This would give as a possibility to challenge ourselves to see, if we can work as a family towards a common goal; to test, whether we have what it takes to achieve something which at first may seem impossible. We have MIKA as a perfect role model to prove us that if you know what you want and you set your mind to it, nothing is impossible. Think back to the beginning of his career!

     

    Secondly

    If we could reach our goal, it would be a perfect gift for MIKA from MFC as a whole before he disappears to record his new album. This would be our way of wishing him good luck with the new album and showing him that there is a large number of people truly appreciating what he does.

     

    This is my dream!

     

    How to accomplish it?

    There are over 20,000 registered users in MFC. I don't know, how many of them are active users but even if we have only 1% of the members to join that would make 200 people and if all of them voted in all the categories at least once a day, we would have 200 votes per day per category!

     

    There should be a smaller group of people, who'd be ready to vote several times a day. You can vote once in every 20 minutes and if you keep all of the contests open on different tabs, all you have to do is to refresh and vote!

     

    The contest remaining time varies for different categories: 16 days for Follow Me, 27 days for Musician of the Month, the Best Fansite, Best Music Website, Best Website.

     

     

     

    We can vote on the following pages (the number in brackets shows the current position as of the moment of posting):

     

    Best Fansite at http://tweeter.faxo.com/Best_Fansite/2010/10 (#5)

    Musician of the Month http://tweeter.faxo.com/Musician_of_the_Month/2010/10?page=1 (#10)

    Follow Me http://tweeter.faxo.com/Follow_Me/2010/10 (#15)

    Best Website http://tweeter.faxo.com/Best_Website/2010/10 (#2)

    Best Music Website http://tweeter.faxo.com/Best_Music_Website/2010/10 (#4)

    I love you baby, but face it he's Mika

    in Chat about Mika

    Posted

    Not all . I was astonished lately, reading in several threads how many people state that they just love him as a singer and are interested just in music. He is a good person, and so on, but they not in love of course. And, moreover, how can one love a guy whom he never seen live? - they say so.

    I just know, that if I wasn't in love like crazy, I wouldn't spend my time here. I'm here because it makes things easier, and I need him every moment in my life, I need to talk about him, write his name, posting pics. Yes, I love Mika, and I don't care that many of girls here will criticize my sincerity and say that i love something imaginary.

    Alba, I love your being so sincere! My hugs to you!

     

    I'm not IN LOVE with MIKA, I'm OBSESSED by him. I'm a secret mikaholic, who carefully hides everything related to MIKA, erases History on her computer before closing the lid and admits to "only sometimes" listening to MIKA's songs. I frequently have "hangovers" due to having listened to his music till early hours or watched his interviews in Youtube. I wake up grumpy, wanting more to relieve the shaking of my hands.

     

    BUT, I would (probably) never leave my husband for MIKA. At least not before I knew him well as a person, not simply as a musician. In my daydreams, yes, in real life, no. I closed my eyes for a moment and imagined his face and now I'm not so sure any more, but most probably I'd be a coward. I've said before that most of all I would like to have him as my friend, but I've also added that I'd soon be wanting more than that. (Un)fortunatley, I will never have to make that choice.

     

    As for what tiibet said about „not daydreaming about anyone else than my husband” - I never daydream about my husband. He's with me day in day out and I don't need to dream about him. I am committed to him though, and I respect and trust him and have all the other feelings necessary for a good partnership – that's what marriage is, isn't it? I wouldn't call it LOVE for this is just a convenient word people use to reassure themselves and the other person that they are OK in their relationship. „Love is just a cautionary, momentary, reactionary lie” and I'm not saying that because I'm fangurling, because this is what I believed in already before my MIKA-time. He just says is so much shorter and better. And for the very same reason I cannot claim I love MIKA. But I really would like to know him and, as someone in another thread put it „pick his brain”, because his so brilliantly witty and smart!

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