bone II

7 minutes ago, daItrick said:

 

Nothing special, just that the fact of me not doing sports for 4 months, having a tiny nose that makes me have struggle breathing and my teacher making us doing the different moves and stuff non-stop (if you stop, he'll make you do another one) makes me nauseous and uhh... Yeah...

ohhh ok...  if you did pass out could you got the nurse and get out of doing pe tho lmao

On 9/18/2017 at 12:07 PM, daItrick said:

 

 

Thanks guys!

 

Anyways, today was horrible. It's my first Monday on school and we had P.E. where I almost passed out 4 times. Later, I missed my school bus and I was in another city for almost 2 hours... What did I do to deserve this!? 

wtf are yall doing in pe that you almost passed out??

3 hours ago, dcdeb said:

Hellsite? Well, we've been called many things before but not that! 

it's partially bc the site is pretty awful to use on mobile and partially cause i and a friend have met some really nasty people on here (also it's very clique-y and quite a few mfc-ers seem to think they're better than other fans....)

3 minutes ago, daItrick said:

An Amira and Melachi forum? Where can I sign up to it lmao 

here, once the Conversion takes hold 

4 minutes ago, daItrick said:

I don't know why but this is my Biggest Mood 

let's turn it into a site where you can only talk about and post pics of the girls admiring their floofy beauty 

2 minutes ago, daItrick said:

Ofc it's me! Glad you're happy lmao 

im always happy that someone i know (except for one person you know who you are) is on this hellsite we'll take it over eventually 

it 👏 my 👏 boy 👏 vireo 👏👏👏

im gonna answer only #2 rn, #1 id need to think about for a while. mental illness hasn't changed anything about me. ive been this way literally since before i can remember. idk if it's even possible to be born with ocd but i have memories about it back from when i was maybe 4 or 5. i developed some form of social anxiety later, maybe around 7 or 8? as soon as i was old enough to realise that i acted different from everyone else and nobody really wanted to be friends with me, then it got worse about when i started high school and started actively getting responses of "i don't like you" or "you're weird" instead of just being confused as to why people didn't want to play with me.  i know that many, many people develop mental illness as a teenager or adult but a lot of us already have it -- for me i consider it simply a neurodivergence and hardly a mental illness at all because i feel i would be a fundamentally different person without it. (note: the social anxiety developed because im autistic and people expect me not to be since i was diagnosed late and im in gen ed, so ive spent my whole life being ignored or turned down by other kids without knowing why)

1 hour ago, Siri said:

I was curious too! Just today somebody posted some more defined pictures about those pants on Twitter! Here you are  

ooh awesome a full length pic!! thank you sm!! ❤

55 minutes ago, silver said:

He wore them at a festival in Benicassim in 2008.  Unfortunately the links to a lot of the pics have been lost

 

 

 

those are so cool!! where does he get all these weird pants lmao

3 hours ago, silver said:

I've just remembered you wanted to see pics of Mika in neon pants

 

 

 

These aren't neon but they're pretty colourful

 

ooo thank you!! do you know of any pictures of the last pair that are not either blurry or weirdly lit? im curious about what the pattern/print actually looks like but the only pics ive seen are about as well lit as the inside of a sleeping bag lmao

2 hours ago, crazyaboutmika said:

Hello bones II and welcome to MFC   To my knownledge Mari has prosopagnosia and she opened a thread about it. but I don't know about  active fans here with  ocd, nor adhd nor autistic...

oooh thanks for letting me know, ill go check that out! (one time a friend i'd known for about a year dyed their hair and i didn't recognise them at all) i can really only identify faces by hair and facial expressions, so sometimes in selfies mika looks like misha collins to me?

1 hour ago, silver said:

 

Thanks for your comments, I'm sure no-one was intending to offend you.  I need to point  out that a lot of people on the forum are not native English speakers, so sometimes their choice of word or phrase may not be exactly what they meant to say.

 

And of course if they use a translation program ......

i know i can easily turn a few sentences into an essay, so i'll try my best to keep this short and to the point.  my issue is not with the words themselves, but with the concepts. 

10 hours ago, BeNny said:

Here are all welcome: we have so much to learn from you. And who says that we are "normal" and you don't? We all live our lives, with difficulties but also many joys. Have fun here

i have yet to see someone who thinks liking trombones is calling myself not normal, so it seems fair to assume that this was a response to a portion of my last sentence (i removed the irrelevant part about pants to save space):

On 8/7/2017 at 4:22 PM, bone II said:

 im mostly on here to ... see if i can find any other developmentally disabled mika fans (specifically autistic or adhd) or ones with ocd

all i said here was that im disabled and hoping to find other fans who share my disabilities. i never mentioned the word normal, or any similar words or concepts that could easily be mistranslated. the only conclusion i can come to, based on my own experiences and those of thousands of other disabled people, is that im being told i shouldn't call myself disabled because that's a bad word and im saying im not normal. i appreciate that @BeNny was trying to be inclusive, but the way they approached it can range from being rude to having serious negative effects depending on the situation. a better way would be either to politely aknowledge it and move on, or to suggest a part of the site or way of using the site to help me find other people with similar experiences.

i know that many people have very little experience with disability so im not offended or upset, but i would like to help educate people on what things are inappropriate and how they can fix it.

i also know that things can go very wrong when translating between languages, but even if that happened it's important that the writer is aware of it so they can avoid it in the future.

this got a lot longer than i intended, and unless anyone has legitimate questions, concerns, or areas they would like clarified, im done with this subject since i don't think defending myself against a total stranger dismissing my concerns without addressing them is a worthwhile use of my time 

5 hours ago, BeNny said:

Hi @Osso II i'm Benedetta and i'm from Italy like you, i love the classic music, especially the simphonies.That's why I love the symphonic versions of Mika's songs

 I played the clarinet for three years. Nice trombone! 

do you have any favourite composers? im really partial to Berlioz.  i definitely don't think mika's symphonic versions are bad! just that his music is, especially from a performer's perspective, much better suited to a smaller ensemble or there aren't enough parts to go around

5 hours ago, BeNny said:

Here are all welcome: we have so much to learn from you. And who says that we are "normal" and you don't? We all live our lives, with difficulties but also many joys. Have fun here

this is a very nice sentiment and i appreciate it, but unfortunately that's really not how it works.  ive spent my whole life being rejected or ignored because i didnt play the right way, i didn't understand what other kids did, i only talked about things i was interested in, i didn't know about the right things, i moved my body in the wrong ways -- and I was lucky enough to be in an environment where i never got bullied!  even if you leave out how other people treat me because of my disabilities, i'll never be the same as everyone else; i can't go outside without ear protection because everything is overwhelming, i can't do many academic classes because my brain doesn't process things like other people's do, and i regularly become convinced that something harmless like picking up a coin off the ground will kill me.  

also please notice that i never once mentioned "normal" or "not normal", simply that i want to find other fans who share a particular experience with me.  if i had mentioned instead that i wished to find other fans who are trans, i can only assume you wouldn't say i was calling myself abnormal for wanting to meet people like me.  i also never said my life was lacking joy because of being disabled; again, simply that i want to meet people who share a particular experience with me.  im sure you meant nothing bad by your statements and i apologize if this reply comes off as overly aggressive, but the things you implied, intentionally or otherwise, were incredibly inappropriate and i would like to help you understand why 

2 hours ago, Mikasister said:

Hello and welcome to the MFC. Have a lot of fun here. You have to listen the symphonic concerts Mika did. 

Here you are a small sample  Enjoy it!!

 

 

thanks for the recommendation, ive actually listened to all of the orchestra versions but i don't think mika's music is very well suited to being arranged for such a large group, he has too simplistic of a style.  now if it were arranged for a chamber group, THAT i would love to hear

2 minutes ago, WeirdChild said:

 

 

I am laughing so much. 

oh god please don't get involved this is not gonna end well im

i did NOT expect to find you on here 

im dahv and my four favourite things, in order, are playing brass-heavy classical music, trombone maintenance, mika, and caring for leather shoes.  my older sibling introduced me to mika in about 2015 with ring ring and i hated it, then started listening to his other songs and changed my mind.  im mostly on here to find old pictures of mika in neon pants and see if i can find any other developmentally disabled mika fans (specifically autistic or adhd) or ones with ocd