buttnugget040

so.....how is everyone today?

wow, that's a very good analysis! well, it's a start at least that you know why it is... i don't have a clue yet I maybe think because I wasn't really raised socially... I was/am always alone at home, parents away all the time, have to do everything myself, am very independent and even like it that way.

 

I also have agoraphobia in the way that I can't stand to be in crowds or places with lots of people. I actually really enjoy the most, when after an evening out, I can come home and have piece and quiet and privacy... I actually like being alone a bit... Being with a bunch of people is way to chaotic...

yeah I get that way ...I can't be around a lot of people either , but for a different reason , I'm closterophobic , or however you spell it ......I started hyperventilating in the crazy maze at the skating rink once , I think there were like 10 people surrounding me ...

jep, that's what 'they' say

 

but i actually don't really believe that... okay in some cases it's like that, but for bullying i don't see jealousy as the main factor...

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I think it's....... FEAR

Let's look at it for a moment:

 

being bullied cause you're a 'geek' --> people are afraid of your smartness and are aware of the fact that they aren't as smart as you

 

being bullied cause you're different (clothes, music, style, way of acting...) --> it's common knowledge that people fear the unpredicted, things that aren't 'the way they have to be', people fear things/people that are unknown, stuff they don't get

 

being bullied cause you are great --> fear of your greatness:mf_rosetinted:

 

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I mean, for me it's all about FEAR

yeah ....that does make sense......people probably bullied mika because he had a better personalit than they ever would have and he was probably unpredictable ....that makes so much sense

jealousy, nothing else:mf_rosetinted:

yeah probably ...I used to get made fun of because my hair is curly and thick and everyoen in my class had thin straight hair...kinda weird aye?

i don't know what it is , I mean my sister gets bullie , but she dresses like everyone else but she's smart , and sh's ADORABLE ! now can anyone tell me why she is bullied?

I've also noo idea how Mika could have been rejected. He is so friendly and nice to people. I would really like him to be my best friend.

 

I've also been rejeced in school. The first five grades in my first school I wasn't rejected, but I had very few friends, because I was very silent and shy.

 

Then I went to another country and attended another school for a year. I really didn't like there, because kids there were very mean and arrogant. I had only one friend and we were both sometimes bullied. Once two girls that sat ahead ad before me slide their desks together so that I couldn't sit in my place. I asked them to let me sit, but they just laughed and said nooo they can't. Then I said tho the teacher and the two girls were scolded and they were very angry with me. And the boys were almost all very mean.

 

Then I started another school and the first year it was more or less ok, although I had only one friend and I didn't feel quite comfortable in my class. But then again, there was a aerobic contest in our school and one of the boys didn't want to participate, therefore one girl couldn't participate also, and the girls in my class decided that it must be me, not because of my dancing, they just decided that I'm the most unwanted. I also hated dancing lessons (we had those one for two years) because noone would ask me to dance and I always was the last one who stood alone.

 

Now I have another class and I'm not bullied, but my relationship wit them is more formal than friendly. I have a few good friends, but not a soulmate-friend (for example, most of my friends either don't understand how much I like Mika, or find it weird). I guess I'm used to being alone and often the presence of many people makes me nervous. My friends don't think I'm shy but I know I am and I find it quite difficult to meet new people.

yeah I'm quite shy too , my mom said I was one of those kids who was attatched to their moms leg , still am even though I'm like 2 inches taller than her lol

i have a question for everyone on here ....how come the majority of MFC are females?

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Can they put you in detention for that? That's kind of illegal...

this is why I hate where I live ..and up until this year I had to wear uniform! ugh

Whaaat?!

 

This guy at my school wore a shirt that said, "I love Lesbians" and he had no problem with it. I have a shirt that has a beaver on it and it says, "Dam!" and I had no problem with that either.

I know it's dumb! My brother almost got a detention because he wore a shirt that says ' got jesus? '

you know what's retarded? I have this one shirt it says 'I"m with stupid' and I absolutely love it ok , but next month I'm going to jr . high and i won't be able to wear it because it's 'inappropriate'

guys , i have no idea why mika was a reject in school ... I mean I would've been his friend

hmm my clothes were never a problem.. I mean, I dress quite feminine and mature cause I feel best in that... But of course I don't mean mini skirts or my boobs hanging out lol, I just dress the way that suits my figure best... The only thing is that I wear too much black... I always wear black.. and if I wouldn't mind too much of people thinking I'm a goth (along with all the hard music i listen) I would wear all black all the time:naughty: no offence to "goth", i just don't want to be labeled anything, not that either cause it's not my thing..

 

And then sometimes a very bright colored piece of color, like limegreen or weird pink/red, or fuchsia!! omg i love fuchsia! too bad now with my red hair i can't wear it anymore...(maybe i should go blonde again...) ofcourse combined with black, yeah, i'm weird like that lol haha

lol that's cool that you have bright red hair ! that's awesome ! WE arent allowed to dye our hair unnatural colors in schoo or else we get suspended apparently it's "distracting"

I was just thinking about this:

 

Does anyone else find it ironic how all of these bratty/snobby people who are always mean to the kids who are apparently "rejects," still continue to fangirl people who were rejects themselves? It's like, they can't be nice to people who are like that at school, but they have no problem lusting over and obsessing over every move of someone who is just like the people that they were mean to, just because they're famous.

yeah .....that is kind of ironic ....

Me,too!!I don't wear skirts or dresses !!!what girls normally wear!!

yeah ! and for a while people were making fun of me because I was the only one in the class who had converse ! but now everyone has them .....

I also dress like a boy and get made fun of for it ...but I don't care at least i'm not dressing like a slut

I wouldnt say that I am bullied in school ....but I am the weirdest in the bunch usually ...like for some reason I just stand out and like ...idk ....maybe it's because I'm so weird and I laugh and talk way too much ...I only have 2 friends that actually get me ...but that's ok ...I can say I 'm one of a kind ..he he

on youtube I was just watching this mika interview ..it was funny

lol...ha ha I think he was my ...third? maybe

mika accepted me on myspace too! I only had to wait one day

oh....ok .......how is mika live in concert ....?

What's the time there ,Sara ?

 

HI,Cheryl !!

Missed ya!!

It is almost 11 am here

why don't u like in america?

well, because mika doesnt come to america as much as he does in Europe and I'm probably never going to see him......and plus where I live there's nothing to do but sit on the computer....

I'm quite happy !!You are from America?

yes I am from america ......I don't like it in america though...

how is everyone today ? I'm tired , mainly because I just woke up .....

Hi !!!!

What's your name ?

my names sara! how are you today?