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BexxY

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  1. Talking on here has helped me come to terms with things a little bit but i fear now i have lost all my faith in men.

    Doomed to be alone for the rest of my days...i really did believe that he was the one , the one i would spend the rest of my life with, i just feel he could have dealt with the situation a bit better to not hurt my feelings but no he did it in the car park at work and simply walked away from me ...*sighs*

  2. I don't even kow what to say to that Bexxy - I actually got alittle teary myself reading that - yet alone what you must feel.

     

    I don't even know you but wish I could just give you a big hug or something.

     

    Just take it day by day. At the moment all you can think of is the pain you're in. We're here to listen to anything you want to talk about.

     

    Really nice family he has though. :(

     

    So so sorry for you *hug*

     

    yeah i mean what family would do such a thing in all my life ive never heard of such a thing but for it to happen to me.

    All he said to me was his family took a dislike to me i just want to know why i dont think i ever said anything to upset them.

    All things aside i have had the best month of my life living with him he was nothing but sweet to me but this weekend ruined everything i feel like my life is ruined.

  3. well and THATS the other thing...he works the same place i do :boxed:

    when i get myself into situations its always the worse kind.

     

    and what i texted him last night somes up how i feel i just said

    even though you have done this to me i still love you and i always will love you and i gave up my family to be with you why cant you just give me a second chance??

    please text back

     

    knowing he does have credit on his phone because an hour before he broke up with me i put £40 on his phone and £50 in his electric metre.

    To this he hasnt replied

     

    he must either be trying to blank me from his memory BUT i hope he is hurting as much as me...i dont think he is though

  4. People either say to me oh it will be ok you will get over him eventually, which is possibly true...but like i say right now i feel terrible i have a million questions in my head that will never get answered.

     

    Will he get back with me in time....i think the answer to that is a definate no

    ive been humiliated and both my friends asked him the same question and the answer is no from him which just says to me perhaps he just doesnt love me like he said he did.

     

    and if his family give him decisions like that perhaps i dont even want to be a part of that family after all.

  5. it was just a killer afternoon / night last night i was in shock i still am in shock over all of this...all my work friends rallied around me for comfort i was ofcourse so distraught i was in tears all night.

    Two of my friends went over to talk to him and he just says the same thing to them.

    Its over he isnt even willing to speak to me or give me a second chance.

    He says he wont loose his family over me..they even asked him if he loved me to which he replies yes

    But if he really did love me then why oh why is he treating me like this.

  6. Thankyou wendi your words comfort me a little.

    Its nice to know im not the only one who has been in this kind of situation.

    It just hurts though he looked me in the eyes and told me he loved me and then looked away and said its over between us im not losing my family.

     

    Maybe his love for me was a lie and that makes me hurt just that extra bit more ...he gave me his granddads ring that he had kept on his finger for 16years and never taken off he gave it to me and said this is how much i love you my most prized possession im giving to you.

     

    my life is rubbish right now and the worst thing about this whole situation is i still love him :boxed:

  7. Heya...i know im not an oldling but ive come here for some comfort ...

    the love of my life told me it was over yesterday out of the blue

     

    he said his dad gave him an ultimatum choose me or his family and he decided with his family and told me to pack up and GO.

    he gavce me only 2 hours to move my stuff from his flat

     

    i am heart broken

    Only the day previous he was telling me how much he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me

     

    I know there must be people on the mfc who will talk with me and help me through my tough patch even though i dont speak to anyone much on here anymore i still feel as if this is my home

  8. Get well soon Caz.

     

    i had the same thing last week except my vomit was yellow

     

    and there was a bit of information you really didnt need to know :boxed:

     

    Just rest plenty and stay close to a bucket or the toilet :thumb_yello:

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