Eir

I was bullied from a young age (physically)....when I was in primary school. I also had to put up with it oustide of school as her mother was my babysitter.She never did anything about .I was very young to notice anyway.But the day came along when my mum actually saw it for herself..(she never believed me)....until she picked me up one day, and I still have the scars till this day.We moved away from that school and I was put in another one.

Until High School......that was full of fun times...I was verbally abused almost everyday, for no reason. I sat by myself everyday and I had no friends.I couldn't wait until high school was over.

Still nothing has changed....to this day.I gave up my music..which I loved..(I played guitar and I sang a little), because of what someone had said to me.(in which she said I was to fat to be on stage).I know I shouldn't listen to what one person has to say...but I'm a very shy and sensitive person and I find it hard trusting and meeting new people.I suffer from vertigo/anxiety now.

 

I try to make everyday better though, and I always think of others first...helping and comforting anyone I can.

To anyone who has ever been bullied..you have all my love and hugs.

 

All I'm reading on this thread is incredible (I was bulled too...but hoped I was the only one)...I can only say: THAT'S NOT RIGHT! Whywhywhy?!?!?

And Bianca, I can understand you, really...but you should think about Mika's troubles and Mika's success and then re-start playing your guitar and sing your songs...really, you should

Thanks White Queen!

I'm always invisible...so, when you'll log in next time, try to contact me. I'll probably answer soon!

Oh Caroline, that's so cute!!!

I laughed all the time...You and your friend now seem happ, I hope it is so

ps. I envy so much your hair color

have you SEEN our love today video?? It's pure geekiness, pure hyperactivity, pure fun. We're finally getting back the immaturity we missed out on - and boy are we LOVING EVERY SECOND

Where can we find it? I really would like to see it...

hi, i thought i'd open up a thread for all those of us who got or still get bullied at school (or work), or anyone who wants to say something on this topic. as we all know, it has happened to mika and he said the best way to deal with it is talk about it - so let's do that.

 

for example:

what happened?

how did/do you deal with it?

if it has been in the past, what influence does it have on your life now?

did it change you and in what way?

 

i got bullied at school and although the worst part of it was over 15 years ago, it still influences my life now. for example, i feel totally uncomfortable when i get into a new group of people where i don't know anyone, for example in a new job. that's when i get all shy (although my friends certainly wouldn't say i'm shy) and i have the feeling that i just want to be alone, not having to tell anyone anything about me - which of course isn't good, as what i really want is to be part of the group and make friends with people.

 

plus, i'm extremely sensitive to people talking behind my back. if i find out someone talks badly about me behind my back, i get really angry. it's exactly what i thought back then, when i was bullied: "why don't you just tell me in the face what kind of problem you have with me, instead of talking behind my back, laughing about me, calling me names and doing bad things to me?!". back then, i sometimes even wished they would beat me, so i could defend myself instead of feeling just helpless.

oh, and i know exactly what mika means when he says the teachers weren't on his side either. some didn't like me either, and most of them just didn't care.

 

the good thing is, it all gets better with the years. i have a lot more self-confidence now and i'm a lot more stable than i was 10 years ago.

OMG...

How much can I undestand you Mellody!

I still have some problems, especially when I'm among peole I don't know...I feel so out of place!

I was a bit depressed 5years ago...now I really feel better, but I'm more fragile...and only a little deception get me hardly down...

as I went at the gig in Milan and waited outside for Mika for an hour, then I was forcet to left and he cam out after 20mins!!! Me stupid...It's from that night that I still can't smile as always ...but I will overcome this moment too...I'm lucky anyway, but my brain doesn't work so well sometimes

To sum up: I really can understand Mika's problems, I love him for this too!

Yes! i like them too! I love the second one!

I can't imagine anything better!

Me too me too!!!

We could do a Mika-fan-art-group...

And help him and his sister for stuff and next album and... (do not disturb...keeping ot dreaming )

 

It's not quite finished!

:eek: Veryveryvery impressive!!!

I really like this one Eir!! I could see slight traces of the text on the other side of the paper! hehe

Yes, I was inspired and drew onthe first sheet I found eheh , thanks anyway!

Hello!

I managed to download, but now I can't listen to files! Anyone can tell me why and what can I do???

I was in Milan too I would like to have a so impressive memory!

Here it is my last creation...I's sorry, it's not perfect because my pen was almost finished!

...But now I want the real one!!!

Eir I'd like to be at your university! I'd always go and sit on the place where you made this drawing lol

ahahah lol!

yes, I think I'll keep on drawing on desks only to save other minds from boring! I'll convert all my uni to Mika's faith!

I think that, during lessons, we escape from boredom thinking what best there is in the world...

So we are strongly inspired

ps. thanks...your drawings were simply...incredible! I'm happy you liked mine

Ehi! There are some artists here! congrats! I can't quote all the artworks I liked because they are too many!

This is mine...during a borng lesson of Psychology at University!

Made on the desk copying by the mobile phone

(I had already attached it in another thread...but I don't remember wich one. I think this is the right place anyway)

Hi guys

 

I feel sorry for Mika as well, what cruel luck. Hopefully he will find true love and the person he finds it with doesn't break his heart again.

 

 

Cheers,

 

gracekelly2007

Yes, I agree, I'm here and I'm only waiting for him...

well, apart from jocking...I think that he's so sensitive, sweet and kind that he will be loved soon. The real problem is that a person so wonderful and deep is also fragile...he get hurted easier than others...

Anyway I'm sure he will be happy...he really deserve it!

OH MY GOD!!!

I'm dying.........

I want them too...but, I want he inside them !!!

OMG!!!

Again in Italy?

I MUST come!!!

I have some relatives near Florence...uhm, I'll try, but I have an exam session in that period

...Well...I need to ask you a favour...I have some problems with my new Myspace (dedicated to MIka, of course ), so, if anyone wants to add me, it would be great! ... I saw some of yours but I can't manage to ask you as a friend !

Thanks...kisses from Milan

Yes, I am too a bit bored by the press, which never pronounce his name without Freddie's one...

I say: Freddie is Freddie...incredible, incomparable.......and Mika is going to be the same, in a different way!

Freddie was a divine rocker....Mika is MIKA, with his Psycho bubble pop...his charming voice, his expoding vitality...etc

It has been obviously a great honour for Mika to be compared to the God of rock (imho), but now he needs to find his image, his figure....and I think he's already found it thanks to his strong, surprising personality!

Both of them will always been my eroes

Yes I was there too!

He's simply wonderful...his voice is...wow! no word can describe it!

Mika, if you read this: you are incredible and I'm glad you have all this success (you deserve it!!!) after a so hard life! People who had fun of you now are surely envious...and maybe they will think about the past!!!

I hope to be lucky as you (but for other matters...I sing in an obscene way )

Bye bye to everyone!!! Kissesss (Bacioni!)

I was there too!!!

But I'm crying because I couldn't stay there till late night, I went away at midnight desperate because I couldn't meet him and take a photo or an autograph...

...so sad... ...I can't believe it...

...well, the concert, anyway, has been wonderful, I can't describe the sensations he gave me last night!

I was near the stage, but not in first line...It doesn't matter, I saw him perfectly and liked every single second...YES I'M IN LOVE!!!

I also met WhiteQueen there!

ok guys, I'll go to break my head on the wall because I didn't stay more waiting for him...so unlucky!

kisses to everyone, baci! ciao!

Hi!!!

I'll be there with you!

Ciao, ci sarò anche io!

White Queen ti ho vista anche sull'altro fun club! mamma mia, io non ho tempo di stare dietro ai forum, già sono presa da quello della mia uni, dalle attività e dagli esami

Però che bello!!! sono in fibrillazione...sono già in crisi per cosa mettermi ahahah ! E' l'occasione per farlo innamorare

Lasciatemi perdere, sono un caso patologico....

ciao!

Hello!

I'm Eir, from Milan, Italy

I'm new to this forum, but not to Mika's fantastic music!

I really loved him the first time I listened Grace Kelly at the radio...then I decided to discover the whole world of this surprising guy and now I can't live without him!

...and the day after tomorrow i'll be at his concert!!!