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    The Gay Thread

    in General Chin Wagging

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    thank you,i see you point surely.

    All rules and moral are created by society to make people being obedient. When you go to any other world:naughty:, they just meaningless and no one have to obey the law or anything.

    But actually, The focusing point isnt high heel shoes......

    I wanna point out is this guy T -having a lying problem (this is acceptable? I dont think so)

    Collecting shoes is just a example, Im not discriminating this hobby.Everyone have their weird hobby,me too!i love biting my bedclothes when i was small,ya sounds stupid.

    The thing is i met a guy who love lying. He lies all the time.

    You know ,actually the story not end. When I ask him seriously do you really collect high heel shoes?Dont lie to me. He admitted that actually not, the shoes are his mother's.

    And there are many times, I have clues to know he is lying.

    But I never expose this in front of him.

    I always wonder whether to tell him that he seems like having a lying problem(OR maybe this is a psychological disease?)

     

    The reason why i wanna post that is obviously not out of discrimination.

    All in all, I still wanna make friend with them .:mikadas:

    Anyway .thank you,you point is right ,really:hug:

     

    I understand, it's not ok to lie. I think persons who lying are not comfortable with therself and think they have to lie to be interesting.

     

    Bit in bold - very true :teehee:

     

    You can be different with different people, I see nothing wrong with that, as long as you are not unhappy, and they accept who you choose to be :dunno:

     

    I think I don't say in the good way what I want to say. I want to say the friend of my cousin understand now that I am a funny girl but before, he don't tink that because of what I wear and what I look like. :wink2:

    The Gay Thread

    in General Chin Wagging

    Posted

    Yes, agreed. :thumb_yello:

    There is nothing inherently 'wrong' with not being 'normal'. But society tells us there is.

     

    I met a man last week end and we will meet again this week end. I don't really know him and that's what bother me. We don't discuss about it and I know I am not really "normal" in spite of I look normal. I am wearing clothes who make me sometimes like I am not really. I like expensive things, diamonds, beautiful dresses and all people think I am really straight and not open at all but I am not like this. I study at university in litterature. Few days ago, I was with my cousin and her friend and both don't really study. Her friend told me : (really hard to tell you in english, I will try) you do think we are not so cultured! And I answered That's don't bother me, I have fun with you. When I am with intellectuals, it's an other thing. It's fun tu be with them. But some day he told to my cousin that he don't think I am so funny. Sometimes I think if we don't have eyes all will be the best. :wink2:

    The Gay Thread

    in General Chin Wagging

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    I have a male friend who is so feminine as well ! ( he is gay...I almost confirmed that)

    Actually I think feminine or gay is not a problem and I really want to try to make friend with them as well!

    but my friend,T, is a weird guy!!

    When we chatting, he lies all the time and everybody knows..

    He always says he is rich or sth...and spend thousand of dollars to buy stuffs

    He shows off his branded perfume in an examination!

    he says he lives in hotel...but I never see him go to hotel!

    he says he loves collecting high heel shoes....

    .....ya high heel shoes and a man..weird,he say they are beautiful

    I think he is the first gay friend i met...but make a very bad impression of gay people

    Maybe my friend just a exceptional case of gay and being so unacceptable....

    i still want to make friend with them!:huglove::mikalove:

     

    Hi, you know, all the things we believe is normal or not was determined by the society. Take the time to think about this. If he told you he loves high heel shoes, he is probably really in conficence with you. Think about it. If you can, accept him like he is. He is marginal and gay. It's two different things for me. I don't judge you, sometimes it's hard to understand things like that but for me it's the fault of the society. It's not necessary to be like the majority. The society don't have any open-minded, I think. We don't have to follow the majority. And believe me, when we can be liberated about it, we feel more good. The important is the respect of ourself and of other people. I hope I will help you with my reflection. I am marginal too. And now I accept me as I am and I feel more good. I just keep in my head the word : RESPECT.

     

    :itsok: This message are friendly, no judgment in this.

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