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sarie.

wttttffffffffff.

 

why do you make me look like such a loser??

 

gosh.

im serious.

im laughing alone right now.

 

my brother thinks im a 'tard.

 

My mother thinks I'm insane.

Sarie...you should be a comedian!

Please move here and be my new best friend!

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:shocked: So it was your plan all along, to make my family think im insane??

 

Well you've succeeded.

 

I hope you're happy.:tears:

 

*comforts steph*

That Shanicka is a mean girl. :sneaky2:

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Who in their right mind would marry her?!

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Rofl. I know, right?

Think I should do that whole... post on all the popular threads thing?

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This will probably be a little long, but please, if you feel the same way and have some time on your hands, read on..

 

The other night I started thinking about a lot of things..(mostly Mika, of course). After a while, I thought about something I read on the GMA thread which bothered me a little. Someone made a comment about these girls who would shout things to Mika while he was on stage like, "Take your clothes off!" or "Get naked!"

This really bothered me because I know if someone shouted these things at me, I wouldn't like it and I'd think that person was disgusting. It also bothered me because Mika's family was in the audience, including his young cousins, and they all could have heard what these girls were shouting.

I remember the uncomfortable look on Mika's face as they shouted this and felt pity toward him and could only imagine how awkward he felt. I remember thinking, "They are so rude! Mika's not a piece of meat!"

Then it hit me, I was being a major hypocrit. I have been involved in discussions and in threads talking about Mika as if that's all he is, a piece of meat. I suddenly felt extremely guilty. I felt so shallow. I also felt extremely horrible because of this.

When I first started posting on the MFC, I tried to stay away from dirty threads, but as I posted more and more, and started reading these threads more, I started thinking it was okay and fun to talk about Mika like this.

Now, I realize Mika is EXTREMELY attractive, but he is so much more than a gorgeous exterior.There are so many more things I love about him on the INSIDE and I respect him so much for so many reasons. I honestly think his inner beauty radiates more brightly than his outer beauty.

I don't mean to offend anyone who reads this in any way, shape, or form. I was actually very nervous about starting this thread for that very reason. I love you all so much and love talking with each of you! You're all such great friends, and great people, and so much fun to talk to! Please, don't take anything at all I say offensively, because the last thing I want is to hurt your feelings or to lose such great friends. I don't mean to attack anyone, single them out, or make anybody feel angry, hurt, or as if they're a bad person.

We're all human and we all have our weaknesses, and I have fallen into that sort of temptation in the past, which I'm a bit ashamed of admitting now, and after I realized I was being hypocritical, I don't have any negative or different views of any of you.

I ask all of you to join this thread if you respect Mika for the beautiful person he is on the inside. Think about it, Mika has done SO MUCH for us, the least we can do is show him some respect.

Thank you all for your time. Again, I started this thread as a POSITIVE thing, not to bring anyone down.

 

And I promise, if I talk about Mika as if he were a piece of meat or in a dirty way, I'll confess to Holy Johnny ASAP.

 

 

 

 

 

some valid points and quotes brought up throughtout this thread, so that there is no misunderstanding or tension between people on certain threads.:

“i absolutely agree that mika deserves being treated respectfully, and not as a piece of meat. but still i don't think there's anything wrong with feeling lust for him and i also don't think he has a problem with it, as long as it's not too offensive, like the girl shouting "get naked!" or ppl grabbing his bum.†(posted by mellody)

 

 

 

"I didn't join this thread with an unrealistic view. It's not always a bad thing to have feelings of an impure nature...we are human beings...it comes with the territory. So if someone has lusting feeling for Mika in this forum, they shouldn't automatically punish themselves because of it. (Although some of the comments made in certain threads really are way too inappropriate and disrespectful, if you ask me.) It's when it really starts to get out of hand that it really becomes a serious issue of disprespect towards a man who doesn't deserve disrespect...shouting out to him with inappropriate comments is really just too much." (posted by Back_flip76)

 

 

 

"This shouldn't be about saying, "Oh, I have respect for him, therefore the fact that I posted that I thought that he was sexy after a Mikagasmic picture is horrible." It's not. Commenting on his attractiveness, not a problem, and I can't see why that would be disrespectful of him at all--- Honestly, if any of you were reading a forum about yourselves and people were making comments about how nice you looked, how could you feel anything but flattery? Mika fully knows what he does to people---after all, he DOES take his shirt off during Love Today, and sex appeal is a part of the whole shebang. If he was so worried about the whole sex factor, he would not jump around stage in tight pants with no shirt on. It's human nature to lust over attractive people, and it all comes with the territory of chatting with your friends on here. HOWEVER, there is a line between moderately lusty comments and downright disrespectfully sexual comments.

This is more about saying, "I respect that Mika is a talented man and not a sex object." There's a difference between finding someone attractive and talking about it and being disrespectful. Mika is a person just like you and me, with real feelings, emotions and thoughts. His body is fun to look at, but it's not public access."

(posted by Hannah)

 

"I, too, completely respect Mika and wouldn't say anything sexual to him in public (unless my overactive imagination kicks in, in which case I would never have meant to say it and would feel extremely stupid afterwards) and, after certain topics that I may have posted in, I never meant it seriously. I never want to see Mika in a Borat swimsuit tied to a chair, and I still stand by that!

 

Mika is a very touching musician, live and on CD, and I truly believe he's a very talented man capable of sending his music to any audience, and to me, that's the most important thing. That's the reason why he's in this business - not to go around flirting and sleeping with people (although it must be easier now as more people know of him, and because of the obsessed fans haha)." (posted by CazGirl)

 

 

 

 

 

 

We clearly don't know him on a personal level, however, I still have respect for the Mika I see. The one that promotes causes such as Global Warming, writes songs to warn people not to have sex too early, and to tell women who are big that they are indeed beautiful!

I love and respect the Mika who takes his time to meet with most of his fans after performances and who just comes off as a generally nice guy.

I don't think we're painting an unrealistic picture of him, we've all witnessed this sort of stuff.

And I'm damn sure that Mika is not innocent, like it's been stated, with the pelvic thrusts and whatnot. (Ahem, the proof: 1.gif)

I just believe that Mika has a kind heart, and he is my hero and my role model. I couldn't think of anyone else in the public eye that would make a better one.and I agree with what everyone else was saying. My posts were'nt HORRIBLE or crossing the line, but I'd rather not talk about Mika like that anymore.

And screaming that out at gigs, totally out of line.

 

 

 

So, basically:

Comments about how gorgeous he is are fine in our book.

Comments about the size of his package are not.

 

Some words on respect from purplegrape:

respect

"its a word that isnt used quite enough in our society today. we've become modern and dont believe in simple exchanging of words anymore. everything is taken for granted and we dont find the need for thank yous or your welcome anymore. we'll knock people out of our way and fight anyone we need to in order to get to our destination.

but attimes we'll realize that we're wrong,and when we do, we also realize that there are good people in this world. some of us do care about others, and we help those who have been knocked down be others. we ban together and help those who need it.

and i believe that most of these good people im talking about are right here, and i thank you for coming to show your respect. for talking about a word thats never met my ears in the past three years. for showing me something i havent seen for even longer."

 

AMEN!! :thumb_yello:

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hmmmm....

 

 

well alright. i'll forgive you.

 

They were already questioning my insanity wayyy before i joined this thread. So i forgive you.:biggrin2:

Thank goodness. <3333

 

 

JESSICA, HOLLIS AND SARIE.

DONT EVER TALK TO ME EVER AGAIN.

 

:crybaby:

 

 

WHERE'S MY WIFE?! :tears:

 

IM SO LONELY .

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Thank goodness. <3333

 

 

JESSICA, HOLLIS AND SARIE.

DONT EVER TALK TO ME EVER AGAIN.

 

:crybaby:

 

 

WHERE'S MY WIFE?! :tears:

 

IM SO LONELY .

 

Laughing. My. Ass. Off.

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