femifrosk Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Ok.. I suck at explaining things, so: - boy at my school fancies me - i don't fancy him - he forces me to tell who i fancy - we chatted on msn - i logged out - i don't trust this guy, 'cuz i don't know him and he's not my type - i don't know what to do should i be happy? no.. HELP! I'd really like some good words or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 *has nothing to say* Well, i'd be flattered someone liked me. I had some really geeky losers like me in my day, but i am just nice to them and say "No, ben I do NOT want your koala!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
femifrosk Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 *has nothing to say* Well, i'd be flattered someone liked me. I had some really geeky losers like me in my day, but i am just nice to them and say "No, ben I do NOT want your koala!" Thanks anyway, Alexandra but Koala? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Thanks anyway, Alexandra but Koala? yeah *rolls eyes* ben gave me a stuffed koala and asked me if i slept with it everyday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
femifrosk Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 yeah *rolls eyes* ben gave me a stuffed koala and asked me if i slept with it everyday. It'd be better if he was a geek actually, 'cuz then I wouldn't care.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sienna Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Om du inte gillar honom så gör du inte! Du är inte skyldig honom något. Vad du kan göra, om du vill vara artig och trevlig mot honom är ju förstås att förklara för honom på ett vänligt men bestämt sätt att du inte är intresserad av honom på det viset. Behandla honom på ett sånt vis som du själv skulle vilja att någon gjorde mot dig i en motsvarande stituation, om han är värd det, dvs om han är trevlig mot dig. Men om du inte gillar killen så fall inte för smicker och trassla in dig i något som du vet inte kommer att hålla. Önskar dig allt väl, hoppas det går bra! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 It'd be better if he was a geek actually, 'cuz then I wouldn't care.. Awh that's kind of mean. I care for all amnkind *butterflies fly by and the mice starts singing* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
femifrosk Posted February 15, 2008 Author Share Posted February 15, 2008 Om du inte gillar honom så gör du inte!Du är inte skyldig honom något. Vad du kan göra, om du vill vara artig och trevlig mot honom är ju förstås att förklara för honom på ett vänligt men bestämt sätt att du inte är intresserad av honom på det viset. Behandla honom på ett sånt vis som du själv skulle vilja att någon gjorde mot dig i en motsvarande stituation, om han är värd det, dvs om han är trevlig mot dig. Men om du inte gillar killen så fall inte för smicker och trassla in dig i något som du vet inte kommer att hålla. Önskar dig allt väl, hoppas det går bra! Takk, Sienna! Det hjelper mye. Setter stor pris på det. Awh that's kind of mean. I care for all amnkind *butterflies fly by and the mice starts singing* Mean to the geeks? Yes, but I don't feel sorry for them 'cuz they are like.. weird. They've got their own interests. I actually don't know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tantastic Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Mean to the geeks? Yes, but I don't feel sorry for them 'cuz they are like.. weird. They've got their own interests. I actually don't know. So you don't like any person who's different or just geeks? hm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xBillyBrownx Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Aww well it's not a bad thing having someone like you.. you should feel apprecaited and special because many others don't get to feel that way.. however it could be hard having to say you don't like them back.. the best thing to do (when you're sure about your feelings first, you don't want to be making mistakes) is just to tell them from the very beginning so that their feelings would grow, which would make it hurt more when they find out you don't really feel the same way.. if it's a small crush they'll move on.. n it doesn't mean that your general friendship with them will end (although you don't seem to have that problem).. everyone has to deal with rejection at some point in their life, and they must learn to accept it.. you just have to be cruel to be kind.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mika4Life13 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Takk, Sienna! Det hjelper mye. Setter stor pris på det. Mean to the geeks? Yes, but I don't feel sorry for them 'cuz they are like.. weird. They've got their own interests. I actually don't know. They're only weird because they do what they like . If geeks are weird then Mika is deffinitely a freak of nature. Which means i am a deffinite show off of my oddness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foalbaby14 Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Ok.. I suck at explaining things, so: - boy at my school fancies me - i don't fancy him - he forces me to tell who i fancy - we chatted on msn - i logged out - i don't trust this guy, 'cuz i don't know him and he's not my type - i don't know what to do should i be happy? no.. HELP! I'd really like some good words or something. i had the same problem. this boy was texting me consantly and never stopped he was so clingy. so when he asked me to be his girlfriend i said that im not ready for a relationship(even though im in love with this other guy) but he said ok and all the i really liked you and boowhoo me, but then i find out one week later he has a new girlfriend. BOYS!!!! so complicated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savage Beauty Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 Vær vennlig mot han, men ikke oppmuntre han til noe. Siden du ikke stoler på han er det greit å holde seg vennskapelig med han så han ikke har noe å bruke mot deg dersom han skulle bli såret og "vonbråten" av at du ikke vil ha han, men du skylder han ikke noe, så du skal ikke behøve å ha noe med han å gjøre dersom du ikke vil selv.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosinaKiwi Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 I have the same problem at the moment! he turns up AT MY HOUSE!! and anyone who expresses their love for someone in hexidecimal numbers has to be geek like right! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
im_stuck_in_the_middle Posted February 15, 2008 Share Posted February 15, 2008 With me: -found out G liked me -developed crush on G -told a friend -"friend" told G -G avoids me - I too shy to talk to G - G finds whore - you can guess... I'd be flatteres in your case Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaza! Posted February 19, 2008 Share Posted February 19, 2008 i had the same problem. this boy was texting me consantly and never stopped he was so clingy. so when he asked me to be his girlfriend i said that im not ready for a relationship(even though im in love with this other guy) but he said ok and all the i really liked you and boowhoo me, but then i find out one week later he has a new girlfriend. BOYS!!!! so complicated. omg, same here, he won't stop texting me! even though I told him I'm not much of a texter These tedious little "hey:)" messages every time I sit down to do something, argh! I wouldn't mind if he had something to say or ask at least! I don't know what to do with him, he told me he liked me very soon after I met him and I said it was too soon for me, but I've been cool with him since so I wish he'd get the message. But he's sensitive so I can't be harsh, I don't know what to do any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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