Your point of view is interesting, and you sure are right to say that at some times gay people were persecuted (and they still are in many countries, let's simply take Uganda for example) and that they should get married with a woman for showing a "normal life".
Your interpretation is still not the one that I got from the video until yet, mostly because I don't see any "hot looks" toward men in it . The whispered "Boum Boum Boum" from the man in black at the Lawrence time could let it think maybe , but for the other times, I don't know...