[added after I found out Patricia was the message sender: please read message 587]
You sound a bit offended, this was not the point, I can explain, yes, sure:
* Some people I personally tried to talk to on the "original forum": the one Perez mentions (oh I'm not to give names, I'm not to send the cavalry against those people and it was in PM anyway) I just wanted to stress that the place here was much more interesting than just chat about sex. I gave up very quickly as I was not interested in such discussions.
The point was just to tell Perez that the atmosphere was mostly respectful here (even if not all the time), and that he would most probably feel better on the MFC.
May I mention, that to me, Perez is not just a regular fan, he's a friend of Mika's and when he says something, he speaks as so?
* About killing the attraction: I just mention a fact, when you are negative to someone, you prevent them from feeling good with you so they don't feel like spending time with you, they prefer to turn to people who have a positive point of view. There was nothing wicked in my thought. I was welcoming Perez and tried to make him feel better after someone has complained about something he did to be nice.
I hope this made it clear for you If ever something is still not clear, just ask me, but you have to know I can't be very often online during the next week.