identicaltwin3

Sod everyone , I am not interested in others... I am a selfish, self-centered, self-involved Leo, remember ?

Cheers,

Id3

I shouldn't have done that : I've just sent you a MFC friendship request and Aquariuses and Leos fight each other... but I did .

Cheers,

Id3

Well, I may have a dirty mind but when I see pics of a prize flasher -and Sire is that - , I tend to think they are dirty pics . Who wouldn't ?

Yeah, shiness can be a bitch . BTW, Sire is an overcompensating shy guy too. I am not being sarcastic, he really is .

Thanks for accepting me as your MFC friend !

Cheers,

Id3

Will you be my MFC friend ?

It's quite appropriate : I am a bad, bad boy and you get away with posting dirty pics on the forum .

Oh, btw, I am very shy too but I overcompensate so that most of the time people don't notice. Do you also do that ?

Cheers,

Id3

I still believe that 'gay' means 'homosexual' -sorry to sound like Niki 27, we certainly don't need her... identical twin on this forum !- ; so much so that the original meaning of gay -happy, easy going, etc.- has been dropped so that there shouldn't be any confusion. Actually I favour 'homosexual' because 'gay', in my view, smells of bigotry, conjuring up images of hip swinging, rather feminine, guys.

When a guy -whether he is homo-, hetero- or bi-sexual is immaterial- looks, sounds, acts, moves like the archetype of the gay man, the term is 'camp', used by Sire himself. 'Fruity' is more American English. And 'metrosexual' means a guy who is probably straight but whose dress sense and general attitude seems meant to confuse people.

Anyroad, if you tell an English speaking guy he is gay, it means you think he is homosexual. Might get you lucky ... or might get your face punched if he is not only not gay but a poof hater into the bargain !

As for being loud about one's sexual orientation... I believe that the day two guys -or girls- can hold hands in the street as a matter of fact, introduce a partner of any gender with the same pleasure and ease, the world will be a better place to live in. And not only for homosexuals .

Cheers,

Id3

Sorry if my latest message was a bit harsh, man, but you did pick on the least bigoted girl you could imagine.

What is unhealthy is not so much the fact that people believe that Sire is a gay guy, or a closet gay, or ramrod straight, or a a closet straight, or a sturdy, hump anyone in view bisexual... what is pathetic and worryng is that we should be discussing whether his video shows his sexual orientation rather than its artistic value.

The day people think of me as the middle height, rather cute gay guy with the longish nose and the ash blond hair, I will feel cheated because I am that, but much more than that, I hope.

No hard feelings ?

Cheers,

Id3

Semantics is a matter of learning, not of sexual orientation.

Confident about your own sexuality ? That sounds defensive. Hope one day -soon- you'll be comfortable about it. As I am.

When you start thinking that 'gay' is a compliment, it strongly smells of bigotry -and gay people can be as big bigots as straight ones, if you haven't realised that yet, you should look around and listen and watch. Intolerance is not located below the belt but in the mind.

And anyway I wasn't reacting to the oh-so-thrilling issue of Sire's sexual orientation, but to your VM to Laura, which was at the same time patronising and wrong, semantically speaking .

If my VM to you sounded patronising too, perhaps it's a catching disease, although I can be pretty dogmatic too ... Absoluteffinghorripilating, I know !

Cheers,

Id3

I am afraid you are confused, man.

Ask Niki to make sure but :

- 'camp' or 'metrosexual' expresses a way of moving, dressing, speaking, which has nothing to do with sexual orientation, straight men can be awfully fruity -or camp-, gay ones quite manly ;

- 'gay' means homosexual, that is to say, and to make matters clear, being attracted by and having sex with people of your own gender, it has everything to do with S. O.

So beware : when you're spending some time in an English speaking country, avoid telling a guy that you are gay unless you actually are quite sure that you fancy men, or you might have an unpleasant surprise, ie, being beaten up by a poof basher or getting lucky with a fairy .

Cheers,

Id3

Absolutely !

We poor long gig deprived people are counting on you, so please, don't let us down ...

Actually it's difficult to judge Andy's talent as he keeps filming like and but we never get a chance to see the result .

Cheers,

Id3

So far, my all time fave vid had been AOW in Brixton Academy, February 28th, by Suzie I think, from very near, absolutely breath taking .

But yours of Over my shoulder, on June 6th, beats it in my view.

I've just been watching it for the first time -I tend to download like mad and then watch when I can find the time- and realised at the very end that I hadn't been breathing for over 4 mn ... I might consider taking up deep-diving ...

It's absolutely perfect . I have always more or less connected perfect with slightly boring, but your video is perfect and fascinating .

Sire and Alexander's voices, Mica's face... even the sweat dripping from his forehead added to the magic, in a weird way. And the crowd must have felt it because they were quieter than in church until the last note, when they litterally exploded .

Congrats !

Cheers,

Id3

Knowing that I am with you in not falling on my knees when listening to WAG is hardly a comfort, is it ?

Well, at least we are two of a species, which means an endangered one, if you or I were alone, you or I would be a dead one.

Cheers,

Id3

I didn't say 'beautiful', I said 'tanned' ... And as my tan is golden he might use the pic for the single jacket .

Cheers,

Id3

How's the weather like in Sweden ?

Here the sun's shining like and I'm going to send a pic of my tanned bod to Sire so that he can use it for the WAG single .

Cheers,

Id3

You hate projects ? Good, you're not sheeplike. John is really kind though. But wouldn't it be better to send him a birthday present, everybody send presents at Xmas ? Unfortunately his bio is awfully short.

X

Id3

Now, I am grumpy ! You have been neglecting me ... No wonder I prefer guys, women are cruel creatures. Especially Arieses .

Cheers,

Id3

Do you really find the pants pic cute ? They look worryingly empty to me ...

Cheers,

Id3

Hi, Sire, will you make it to the itunes gig, on July 31st ?

Cheers,

Id3

Bullying ? Here ? You don't say !

Cheers,

Id3

Unable to send you this message tonight, my wi-fi connection is mental. Hopefully tomorrow at dawn, very early start for me.

Even the adm and mods understood the genealogy and enjoyed the special situation (if sharing the same laptop within a family is anything special) as it allowed them to put an infraction both on my grandmother/mother and on me, thus feeling extraordinarily powerful.

We should probably feel flattered to be the object of such peeping, speculations and obsession but having a life and a career, obviously just a life as far as my grandmother is concerned but quite full given her age, we find it weird to see people so interested in other’s lives.

This may be a very naïve and irrealistic view of what a musician’s fanclub should be, perhaps people come here to fill up a void, not to exchange ideas with other fans about the artist ?

Please, don’t feel rejected, if you enjoy imagining a MFCer so schizophrenic that he/she/they (?) take (s) on three different identities, be our guest. We would hate you to be unhappy over such trivial matter.

Still I am going to shatter some of your fantasies ; in advance I ask you to forgive me.

SK flower shop ? Because it was literally across the street from my mother’s hotel.

SK hotel ? Because the Gower Street brilliant place where we always go when in London had no vacancies, that SK is a decent area, that the hotel is less than two minutes’ walk from an underground station where the direct train from Heathrow stops and that she’ll never learn to travel light, poor soul !

Incidentally she found the hotel dusty, boring and overpriced and since has managed to get a room at the GS place. Serves her right for not booking in advance.

The post she sent the young MFCer whose parents met Mica in a SK flower shop ? Because she thought it would be a funny coincidence if it were the same. A typical provincial’s reaction as in : ‘Your cousin lives in London ? He may know mine.’

So there still are a few fans of Mica’s who don’t see in SK a new Bethleem, the place where all pilgrimages start and end.

If you want to have fun about icon worship, watch again ‘The Life of Brian’, it’s hilarious and as always with the Monty Pythons, deals in nonsense, should help you put things into perspective. I must have it somewhere, send me a friend’s address in a PM and I’ll be happy to lend it to you as soon as I have traced it ; might take a while, though, my place is in a mess –you are right in a way, I am a bit schizophrenic, messy at home and beautifully organized at work… DO NOT give me your own address or I might be tempted to come over and stalk you. You don’t want me on your doorstep, bad enough that Mica finds perfect strangers knocking at his door.

Cheers,

Id3

P.S. To put your mind a rest -but do you really want to... why don't you ask Joannie Penniman, Mica being a bit busy at the moment, if there actually are more than one de Rougemont/Dubus ? I'm not going to give you their address but I am confident that many people here would oblige...

Merry Christmas, Sire but don't get too drunk to keep up the good work ...

Id3

Thanks, but I don't have any men in kilt pics to add here. I would hate to be rejected by this thread !

As well you should !

Thanks a load for the information ...

Cheers,

Id3

Wendi,

So happy I could trace a Scot... or are you just a resident there ?

Anyroads, I have been dying to start a club with people (Scottish or not) who are deeply, madly, completely in love with Scotland but don't know how to do it.

Can you help ?

Would you be in ?

Cheers,

Id3

Thanks for the Italian thread, Robertina ; it helps me brush up my Italian, which badly needs it ! .

Can't you have both chocolate and s at the same time ? Sure, the s didn't really mean spinash, did it ? OK, maybe I have a dirty mind (French, extenuating circumstance).

I definitively am a nuts and raisins milk chocolate person. So I am despised by true black chocolate lover bigots who think that mixing milk and chocolate is like putting water in Roederer Cristale. But the criticisms can't prevent me from enjoying !