This section here: "when someone picks out a phrase from the post of a non-native speaker who might not have used the best verb to describe an action, and writes judgemental opinion on someone else based on that" suggests to me that someone shouldn't be making an opinion, judgemental or otherwise based on something a non-native speaker has said, that we must always assume that they have used the wrong verbs if we disagree with what they're saying. Like I said to Sara, I'm sure you didn't mean it to come across like that, but that IS an interpretation I got from it, and like I've said already, I'm not trying to be argumental here, I'm just trying to make sure that there is no more unnecessary upset caused by people taking things as they were not intended.
And again, like I said to Sara, I didn't mean she would be upset with you, there's no reason for her to be upset with you because of this, but, well, I'm sure you've read what I wrote in reply to Sara so I shan't waste our time repeating it.