come on, be honest to yourself, everyone cares about the appearance, you should make effort on your own style but don't put it at the first place ...
and i know all aunties, including my lady boss, they all go " Ooh, Ooh, Ooh, he is so sweet, he is so cute, he is like sunshine shines from high above ...... his tunes are ... 'happy' ! " it's always more comments on the look !!