Woah hold up! Are you saying that becuase we accept Mika for who he is, that we don't care? I'm sure that everyone on this fanclub cares for Mika and his music, otherwise we would not be here in the first place. By you wanting to change him is not caring for him. And by saying that this is a 'whim' and that you must 'save' him is wrong. I think you should just accept him for who he is, he's not going to change- especially not for his fans. This is his life- not yours, not mine, nobody but his. Just please realise that he is with a man, he says he's gay, he is in love- and this is what is truly making him happy in life.