FOr me, as a fan since I was young of George Michael I would find out it didn't matter and his music of what he was going through to hit me even more... I didn't think I would marry him or whatever but bottom line I understand and think we do have crushes whatever and ask questions sometimes... I don't want to see Mika go through regardless what some do re sexuality but also think it's a bit unrealistic to think people are not going to bring it up and ask question and feel for the people that do that get slammed because they don't have many posts, or put down or down right ignored so I alway worry about posting... It really honestly doesn't matter re personal life and I'm not saying Mika is George or like him or whatever, just hope we have come far enough to see that it doesn't matter on what Mika's sexuality is... I have a problem though with people I have talked to for a long time on my myspaces re him who now will not talk to me there or on this board because they have met or been lucky enough to work with him...I have been flat out interrruped for my opionion like I didn't matter and told they would no longer talk to me because they have met or worked with in some way Mika... I don't know if that is his rule or theirs... We are all fans those of us that post on here.. SO don't know what I missed there in the rulebook....ANd some of us are shy to post because we don't know all the rules if there are some and was shocked by that.. I am so happy when people get to meet or work with him but the "I can no longer talk to you" when we started out as fans together at the beginning I don't understand so don't know what is taboo or not... Scared to even think I posted this one...