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I perfectly know that we're all human beings, and sure, it could happen, not only could, it happens. and there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't hurt anyone. the secret is not going too far with it. if you don't, you're OK then. Thanks Romi! much love! Inbar.

oh, no no, you misinterpret what I was saying... I don't feel ashamed for thinking of Mika as sexy and attractive and good-looking and all those adjectives that refer to the exterior vision that I was talking about. I only do when I feel that I'm getting close to this limit that I feel I'm not allowed to cross. it is when you forget that there's a human being beyond that "body", a human being that is what made you fall in love with him in the first place. I only stop myself when I feel I need to, when it's actually wrong. I like looking at his pictures and saying "he's so sexy... he's so handsome...etc...". I feel attracted to him and I like feeling this way, it's natural and pretty flattering I think. I DON'T LIKE thinking of him as a sex object only, therefore I stop myself from getting to that place. *when it's definitely wrong and stoppes being that natural* you can't think in that humiliating way about people that you love and have respect for. if you do, guess you don't really love/respect them. so that's basically what I was saying

lol yeah i've seen the date thanks Finkster

omg, am i the only one on the MFC that haven't encounter this thread till now? Haha. and i kept wondering what was this whole "I respect Mika" thing all about now i totally get it. and couldn't agree more with what you've all said. please add me! i must add that i too did went into that place where it's a little crossing the line and thinking of mika only as a sex object, but only in my thoughts. and when i did, at the same second i stopped thinking about mika that way, cause it automatic felt wrong. i immediately sense that it's unappropriate and feel ashamed. it's like i already have an hidden mechanism that tells me when it's right and when it's wrong, and stoppes me from keep thinking about it when it's wrong. i just can't think of mika that way, i respect him too much for that. since i know what's beyond the exterior vision that we all see, and that is a wonderful person. so definitely yes, I RESPECT MIKA.

Oh my god. he is so sweet i dont know why, i really feel bad for him, i can sense that he's feeling guilty especially when he so should not, poor guy, how could he know that was gonna happen? that's not any of your fault, Mika! how sweet and thoughtful of him to publish this message. always thinking of his fans first! this man is amazing. i wish he had knew we're not irritated at all! we only care for him getting well now and that's perfectly fine and understandable. his health comes first! it's more important than any gig or event. God, what a sweet innocent boy. I love him more than ever. Mika, if you get to read this, dont feel sorry! the important thing now is that you'll get some rest and get better! that's the only thing we care about right now!! and it's a good thing you've cancelled the shows, you taking care of yourself and getting well is WAY more important now than anything else! under these circumstances we would be irritated if you didnt! GET WELL !! WE'RE ALL SENDING OUR ENDLESSLY LOVE AND OUR ALL HUGE HUGS !! WE LOVE YOU MIKA!

i so agree! i've noticed that too and i think it's amazing, i'm not sure if i'm the right person to say these things cause i'm kinda still new here but i must say you're all amazing people! (or is it *we* that i should say?) that's totally the spirit of the MFC that i see around here, consideration and caring and of course mika's condition and wellness always comes first, preceding any gig and basically anything, important as it may be. that's just puting mika's sake and needs before our own, that's so MFC kind of thing and i feel proud for that times like that really show all of this in the best way possible, how we're all united in our minds. i think Mika is really lucky for having such kind of fans. dont you agree? I'm proud to be an MFCer. truly. keep that spirit going guys! I think you're amazing!

i'm voting like 68590330 times a day! i dont know what's wrong with it could it be that it doesnt count your vote once you've already voted for that day even though you dont get the "you voted" message? i think that may be the problem. it sends you to the results page but it doesnt consider your vote. i dont see any better explanation for that, cause we all vote everyday lots of times

sure! count me in i'd do anything for Mika

OMG! poor mika that's terrible news. i had no idea he was so sick =\ poor guy just in his last two, must be serious... i feel bad for all of those who traveled all the way to London from around the world specially for those gigs. i was supposed to be there too. are you sure about tomorrow too Freddie?

oh, cool thanx

now THAT'S an idea

ohh that's ok, i already know her i know, she met mika 6 TIMES!!! including 4 days ago on Newcastle which in she gave him a special necklace with a USB which she put my letter to him in took me 6 pages and hours of writing! but that guy is TOTALLY worth all of that she's probably gonna meet him again on one of the gigs on 2,3,4 and she'll ask if he read it! cannot believe he's gonna (or already did? ) read MY letter!!! i'm so happy! :biggrin2:

Hi Romi! i am just fine how are you? yeah, i know! i've noticed that, unfortunately... i dont know why there arent much Israelis over here. i guess that many people just havent got the chance to be exposed to Mika yet already (ohh, not to worry, i'm working on it with each day. haha.) and the ones who had (and i'm not talking about his songs, they are pretty known here. lol), probably either haven't heard of the MFC just yet or either lost their way through all the forums hehe. it's their loss, anyways haha. i know what you mean! i have the same problem, except that my legs are short AND fat! LOL v-e-r-y bad combination, trust me when youre short or average, your body is mostly what people are most looking at. :S not to mention most of my friends are all giraffes!!! (lucky people hehehe. i wanna know their secret). luckily, my height isnt such a big issue to me, i mean of course i'd rather being taller, but i'm perfectly fine with how i am now as well. and who doesn't like it is more than wellcome to not look at all it was nice meeting you too! you seem lovely (: lots of love!

i'm 160cm, so i'm considered average i guess (at least that's what my friends say, but that's just the point, they're my friends! ) so i still feel VERY small i mean, what 5cm more could possibly hurt? so.... care to join me to the club?

ohh, dont worry, i have the same thing with my class :S. just dont pay attention, they're all losers if they cant appreciate Mika. at least WE can see the beauty of his. luckily, i dont have to stand their laughings now when they hear i like mika cuz in Israel as for now there's a strike and we havent go to school for a month and a half [] but in the regular i tend to ignore them. perhaps if they're worth it i try to show them how lovely he is, like you said. only if they're not jerks just think of it as if we are the lucky ones who got the chance and the honor to know him, and they simply didn't. there's noting that we can do about it, our all stupid childish class mates cannot begin to understand how amazing mika IS, not like we do, they just cant see in him what we can see and that's why we have each other here in the Mika Fan Club surrounded only by people like ourselves, MIKA FANS!! so everytime you feel a "loner" (HA! they are the ones, they could only wish to know him or being half of what he is!) you can come here and we'll all make sure we get you out of this

lol, did he really say that? that's so nice! like the presenter already you can tell hes got a good specific taste in music and of course i've voted! what language is it?

so here's my tricky answer right now i'm single and i'm insanly in love with Mika! and it's not even a "celebrity crush" or something (like i've read here somewhere).. it is so much more. i mean, he is just PERFECT, and i've never felt this way about anyone, surely not about a celebrity.. so he is the love of my life and if he would ask me out, in this situation, right now, i'd probably freak! i would jump up the roof! but that's not the case, right? cuz you're asking me what would i do if i had a boyfriend. so if i'd have a boyfriend, i would probably be in love with him, isn't it right? so i wouldn't be in love with mika, cuz i'm already in love with him, or he wouldn't be my BF in the first place! so i wouldn't have to think about leaving him for mika, or any guy.. unless i'd be actually in love with mika (or in any guy) and not with him.. and in that case, i should leave him anyway! LOL cuz i'm not in love with him........ lol, isn't that make sense? :DD so the answer is no, if i have a BF that i truly love, i don't need to think about any other guys, including Mika. assuming i'm just not interested in them, like i should be (or it wouldn't be real.. you should focus on your boyfriend if you have one! and only on him) but that's just an imaginary situation where i have a BF which i'm in love with.. ( =[ ) as for now, i'm single and hopelessly in love with MIKA. and i don't think that that's about to change any soon

sure sounds great! is it his? is it a new song/demo of him that he just came up with? cuz i never heard it anywhere before.. and i absolutely LOVE it. i wish i could be there..

i'm new :] my name is Inbar, but you can call me Inby as well on the 27 this month i'll be 16 and i'm from Israel.. well, what can i say about mika? i was exposed to him for the first time at the summer vacation on July (please correct me if i have a grammer mistake or any mistake at all) with the song "love today" that i once didn't like but after a while i started to really like, and i heard somewhere the guy is Lebanese and i saw the clip and i got curious about him cuz he looked different somehow to me and so was "love today", i loved it! so i typed "mika" at google, and i found "grace kelly" (i knew the song before, just didn't know it was his, i didn't like it either! lol haha) and in a way i can't explain, from being intrested i just suddenly fell in love! i heard all of his songs and from about 24,000 videos of him on youtube i watched like 200, even more.. interviews, shows, everything that includes him in it and the more and more i saw, the more and more i knew him the more i fell in love. so now i can truly say that i'm addicted of (?) him for 3 months now! i wake up in the morning with MIKA, i go to sleep (doesn't sound so good lol) with MIKA, i live him! 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. i just love him so sooo muchh.. oh god i wrote so much haha sorry! i can talk about him for hours.. well, there you go.. that's my story another mika fan to the club haha