true. I just feel that if you're rejecting certain fans you're not personally acquainted with, yet adding others, and then calling it your "private" account.... just doesn't really balance out to me.
he didn't decide to chat with whomever added him; he took the initiative to add them. that's what i was talking about. i see your logic if he had logged on, saw the first comment on his page from some fan out there, and replied. but if you're interacting with someone on an artist-to-fan basis, i don't feel it's right to add certain people and acknowledge them but ignore/block your other fans.
the whole "mica/mika" thing doesn't make sense. I don't think just because the spelling is "mica" means that it's somehow a private account as opposed to "mika" unless he's specified only people close to him call him by that.
either way, I don't have facebook, ain't gettin' one, and wouldn't initiatively add him anyway. cause apparently it is supposed to be at least quasi-private.