Pam Travers

LMAO!!! you won a prize, right? I assume he didnt...thatexplains clearly why he didnt want to give you an autograph...hey are you sure it was a dream, it sounds so realistic,lol I often dream about mika and there is always a lot of water in my dreams except once where it was in a desert and my watch was broken, mika was signing autographs in a tent

haha I love this thread...My first vinyl record (the first I asked my mother to buy me as a kid) was a french band no one has probably heard of here called chagrin d'amour...then my first cds have been beethoven and nirvana. my first "famous" gig was billy idol, lol, i was still a kid and the man was doing push-ups on stage, years later i still remember that night, it was funny/scary and pretty weird for a first gig...maybe we could add the last gig we went to...for me it was the babyshambles...and the next is gonna be some obscure bands actually, i dont really go to bigwarmachinebuisness gigs anyway...

I think transparency is the way and pm's are the opposite of it.. Everytime someone is banned, moderators say "we have had tons of pms from members who received innapropriate pms of this specific members" then if you ask the banned members they have no clue about those so called pms= they didnt even pmd anyone, so there are 2 solutions, the moderators lie or some members really pmd them but those members lied = in both cases truth is nowhere...now there is no solution to that, people lie that's life...if there were no pms then everything would be on the forum only and thus everything would be in the public view, it would be much more difficult to make up stories...providing explanation when someone has been banned...well again lies can be provided and the banned members wont be there anymore to discuss it, i think no pms could be the solution to all the problems, public view for everything, transparency. I know no one will agree but I dont have any other solution to avoid lies. now about the rules...i think everyone is willing to follow them but then JUST DEFINE THEM, how is anyone supposed to follow any rules if they are not clearly defined and if they change from a person to another? Rules here are like some picasso's paintings and it seems that they are not the same from everyone, somone say the word "****" and it's a scandal but then someone openly speak about threesome and it's OK. I dont personally get it but you tell me.

dont you understand that there is NO privacy rules (nothing, nada , niente baby!) for the members here...how does she feel? probably very bad and powerless!! great lines.

yes, it's true you are a clique, so what?? I just want to say that i'm not a part of that clique but that i am totally MORE THAN OK about groups and stuff, it's only natural, and that's what everybody else should think... and this is also true that you (jack) are welcoming people very friendly even those who are not a part of it, so I really , really personally cant see the problem

once again you prove that you can question yourself, something that many people can't do and self questioning is the most important thing... it's a shame you're not a moderator but maybe you wouldnt be interested in being one anyway... and I want everyone to know that you and I are not friends= I'm being totally objective. lol,suzy...it's the first time that i read something from you so ....cant find the word but:thumb_yello:

what then? i'm afraid the answer will be "nothing then..." and you can add my name to the list, not that I know or care about all those people but i believe in fighting for right causes I could write 567889pages about all this but it would be totally vain...so just one thing;only people like you should be allowed to be moderators jack, people who are able to stay neutral, no one else...not people who ban for personal reasons, personal dislikes etc. the reasons you've been given to xplain the banning of those members dont make any sense since if those were the right reasons, then many other members should have been banned too and it is obviously not the case... I suggest 3 things - ban the banning or - neutral moderators or - robots without any feelings, moods, dislikes or preferences as moderators

I dont care about "WHO" too...it's just a dream i have, all those people who think that you cant be feminine and wear colours and be straight at the same time it's so ridiculous and it would be such a shock to their system to know that someone the whole world has labelled gay is actually not...they would all shut their big mouth for once...but of course it's just an utopia, the joke made me dream for just a second, nothing more, i'm a stereotypes wanna be breaker, wannabe because unfortunately stereotypes often win

I so SO wish it was true...just imagine for a second , mika with a girl, it would be the most beautiful thing because it would defies all stereotypes, kill them and burry them for good.

// both //

the other night i was having a conversation with a friend...too bad i missed this topic because i had a real tough question: mika is on a boat with his brits award (the only one he got), the brits falls into water..what would he do??haha.

mika is hardly a breakthrough artist, right, he is a confirmed artist and that's probably what she meant... ...and who's markronson btw??

and catholics say it makes you deaf....nevermind

...yes and especially mika:roftl: , as for you you look totally self-questioning and wise...I dont think you have that much to learn,lol... Gata... I know you understand...and maybe you dont remember because you didnt care or know the person, that might be why, i remember it because it's someone I do appreciate and care for...ya know

he is biting his tongue NOW...that wasnt the case before...(i cant even imagine what he would say if he'd say what's on his mind like he used to do before)... I wont namedrop you know and as i said the artist i'm thinking about dont need that and anyway the name is not important...I dont want to fight, i'm a fan of the music of mika but I just dont like when people go blind about him...understand me

...that was my point...and mika should read your wise words too, not only the person you are talking about....mika is not a saint, maybe you thought she had been lacking of respect towards him but he does the same...mika or not it's totally uncool and cruel...

I dont mind about this anecdote, really, it's quite funny, but mika is really harsh and bitter sometimes towards some people...as i said before I read some interviews where he said such mean things, things I dont even want to copy/paste here since it really hurt my feeling....I cant help thinking about the families of people anyone can be rude towards...it's just cruel and pointless, you know??

...and she has been complimentary about his....

I know you were referring to LA...that's why I said it was all the same to me...you called her "Jealous. Insecure. Inarticulate. Twit." to me it's assasinating a charachter...but that's only to me...that's my own opinion...those words are really rude TO ME but maybe they are just friendly in your mouth... and honestly I dont even know her music or her TV show so maybe yeah i just have high standards or maybe i'm just a kind person who wishes that everyone could be nice to each other...

mika?...no of course not...but it's the same to me, being mean to mika or anyone else...what's the point really? you know you guys are exactly probably the kind of people who bullied mika at school and it's pretty damn scaring to be honest!

to sum up : lilyallen is a : "jealous cow who's career has gone down and blames it all on mika because she lost her baby and the guy is more famous than she is" etc. wow...if you are still asking yourself who is mean and who is not, dont. a year ago or so lallen said this on mika: I haven’t heard much of his stuff. I’ve only heard the one song that’s on the radio in the U.K., which is called “Grace Kelly.” I like that; I think it’s all right. now you all go rude because she said he was too ***...honestly, i've heard worse since the girl just said nothing at all...

action speaks louder than words did anyone go to theolb club after the gig??

I absolutely agree, and maybe you should teach Mika, i think he might not be that cool person... wasnt he?? it seems that he is being mean towards many people actually, i read some things he said about some singers and the guy wasnt only mean he was wrong and totally out of the loop, it was almost hurting...really...that's sad if he is that uncool...

:roftl: oh you!!