Lollipop-Kid Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 You've got nothing to worry about - I'm 18 and never had anyone lol! I'd rather be single than be one of the people who has a boyfriend every week and claims that they're "in love" with every one of them. It really annoys me when people do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I've been 'Mikafied'! Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 yay-a!!!!! haha!i rather be a reject than some popular girl!woot!woot! same with me. everybody calls me an oddy (yay!). there used to be this girl at my school who was like, THE most popular person ever. all the boys fancied her, center of attention,lots of friends, i mean, whats the point of being popular? (no offence to anybody who is, cuz im not that mean!) i think that just as long as youve got a couple of friends and family, you're fine. :biggrin2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CazGirl Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 Well, I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. And to be honest at the moment I do not feel a need for one at all. I just recently got over my first "real" crush and actually now I'm happy that it didn't work out. It is strange that you can have a crush on somebody although you don't like him as a person - this was exactly my case. There was a period when I really wanted to have boyfriend but now I just don't need anybody. Actually I sometimes wonder if I ever want to be with somebody and this worries me a bit. Maybe I just get it all wrong, but I have a feeling that when a guy is your boyfriend, you can't be friends anymore, it puts you both in certain roles, you both have some expectations, then you get disillusioned and annoyed and etc. It may sound a bit extreme, but when I see couples I don't feel envious, don't want to be in their place. I don't know, maybe I just don't have the faith that this could work out like in fairy-tales and I don't want to experience all that negotiation that comes along. But, oh well, I'm safe, nobody likes me OMG DID YOU READ MY POST!?!?!?!?!? We're in the same boat! must be an 18 thing! xDDD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kk448 Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 I'd rather be single than be one of the people who has a boyfriend every week and claims that they're "in love" with every one of them. It really annoys me when people do that. No kidding. I also don't like girls (and guys) who date whoever's there just 'cause they feel like they're complete with another person. I don't really feel like I need another person to be complete. I can be complete on my own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sesil17aa Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 OMG DID YOU READ MY POST!?!?!?!?!? We're in the same boat! must be an 18 thing! xDDD Yes I read it. Indeed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lollipop-Kid Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 No kidding. I also don't like girls (and guys) who date whoever's there just 'cause they feel like they're complete with another person. I don't really feel like I need another person to be complete. I can be complete on my own. Well said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Weather Posted August 19, 2007 Share Posted August 19, 2007 Awww that sucks...I Hope you feel better soon:thumb_yello: Thank you sooo much!! I have way less pain today!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyD Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Okay- so I am driving to work this morning- and this person just pulls out RIGHT in front of me. I literally had to go into the other lane just to avoid him hitting me. THANK goodness there were no vehicles directly next to me, or it would have been a collision for sure! AAAHHHH! I was SO MAD..... *I was not listening to Mika at the moment* So I had to quickly put in LICM and hit #4 so that I could calm down, and get over my anger! BAD DRIVERS ANNOY ME! Feels Good to get that off my chest! Damn Claude Barzotti! I should have been listening to Mika!!!! I REALLY need someone to teach me french! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackViolet Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Maybe I just get it all wrong, but I have a feeling that when a guy is your boyfriend, you can't be friends anymore, it puts you both in certain roles, you both have some expectations, then you get disillusioned and annoyed and etc. I definitely agree that you shouldn't get a boyfriend just because, and you should be satisfied being single and not need a guy (or girl) in your life, but I also wanted to say that if you end up dating someone for the right reasons, it does not mean you can't be friends anymore at all. In fact, instead, you get an amazingly close friend with whom you can (ideally) be entirely comfortable and share things you wouldn't even share with your other best friends or family. It can really be an incredible experience. At least, that's how it was for me, and I'm still friends with that boy even after some rough times after the breakup (not right-right after, but later it got a bit complicated) because once you forge that type of closeness it doesn't easily go away. I don't mean we still have feelings for each other or anything, but we know each other on an extremely intimate level, and that knowledge doesn't go away, and so we still talk and confide and share things just because even though we have other, generally closer current friends, some things they simply can't know. The negative side of course being that if you get that close, the after-breakup time can be utter hell because of how much you can hurt each other in tearing away. --Jack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pinkunicorn123 Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Grr - okay ive just come back from the hospital, again. I just got the results back from another long batch of tests and it seems i can not add a new condition to my long long list. I now get to be the kid with epilepsy - in addition to the whole 'cancer' thing, gorlin syndrome, scoliosis, autism, cfs, add, bccns, dyslexia, and god only knows what else. That ontop of everything else....all the hospital visits, the troubles at home etc.... Today has not been a good day. Rant over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sesil17aa Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 I definitely agree that you shouldn't get a boyfriend just because, and you should be satisfied being single and not need a guy (or girl) in your life, but I also wanted to say that if you end up dating someone for the right reasons, it does not mean you can't be friends anymore at all. In fact, instead, you get an amazingly close friend with whom you can (ideally) be entirely comfortable and share things you wouldn't even share with your other best friends or family. It can really be an incredible experience. At least, that's how it was for me, and I'm still friends with that boy even after some rough times after the breakup (not right-right after, but later it got a bit complicated) because once you forge that type of closeness it doesn't easily go away. I don't mean we still have feelings for each other or anything, but we know each other on an extremely intimate level, and that knowledge doesn't go away, and so we still talk and confide and share things just because even though we have other, generally closer current friends, some things they simply can't know. The negative side of course being that if you get that close, the after-breakup time can be utter hell because of how much you can hurt each other in tearing away. --Jack Thanks for sharing. Yes, maybe I just haven't seen an example of relationship like that, therefore I just can't imagine it. But I'm glad that you have, I guess people may have many boyfriends/girlfriends in their lives, but there must be a really special person to have a relationship like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norwalk174 Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Grr - okay ive just come back from the hospital, again.I just got the results back from another long batch of tests and it seems i can not add a new condition to my long long list. I now get to be the kid with epilepsy - in addition to the whole 'cancer' thing, gorlin syndrome, scoliosis, autism, cfs, add, bccns, dyslexia, and god only knows what else. That ontop of everything else....all the hospital visits, the troubles at home etc.... Today has not been a good day. Rant over. that sucks i'm not going to complain about my life anymore hopefully mika fan club will help!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackViolet Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Thanks for sharing. Yes, maybe I just haven't seen an example of relationship like that, therefore I just can't imagine it. But I'm glad that you have, I guess people may have many boyfriends/girlfriends in their lives, but there must be a really special person to have a relationship like that. Well, I was 21 when I got into that relationship, 'cause I didn't see the point of getting involved with anyone before that anyway. --Jack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurygirl Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Well, I was 21 when I got into that relationship, 'cause I didn't see the point of getting involved with anyone before that anyway. --Jack If you don't mind me asking: Why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackViolet Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Just because I hadn't met anyone before who I felt was worth really getting involved with? --Jack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phunkygal Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 If you don't mind me asking: Why? i dont blame jack. im sorta like that i just tink a relationship wouldnt have the same meaning to me till when im older.not to say i wont get a boyfriend till im 21 but.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurygirl Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Just because I hadn't met anyone before who I felt was worth really getting involved with? --Jack And then that certain somebody arrived! Cute:wink2: Sorry I'm really a hopeless romantic so I enjoy stories like yours! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phunkygal Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 And then that certain somebody arrived! Cute:wink2: Sorry I'm really a hopeless romantic so I enjoy stories like yours! same w/ me....well...sorta. i like to hear stories about meeting mika cuz im desperate to meet him!lol! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurygirl Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 same w/ me....well...sorta. i like to hear stories about meeting mika cuz im desperate to meet him!lol! Ha ha ha I think we all do! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackViolet Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Haha! But it didn't end well! It ended with awful, awful heartbreak and was absolutely horrible and made me seriously wonder if falling in love was ever worth it again! Still not sure about that last one, but it was a good experience while it lasted. --Jack Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurygirl Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Haha! But it didn't end well! It ended with awful, awful heartbreak and was absolutely horrible and made me seriously wonder if falling in love was ever worth it again! Still not sure about that last one, but it was a good experience while it lasted. --Jack Shame! That's awful! I hope your views change though, because falling in love is wonderful - when you have the right person on the other end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phunkygal Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Haha! But it didn't end well! It ended with awful, awful heartbreak and was absolutely horrible and made me seriously wonder if falling in love was ever worth it again! Still not sure about that last one, but it was a good experience while it lasted. --Jack i like how u sign ur name.very simple but nice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurygirl Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 i like how u sign ur name.very simple but nice! Lmao! That was random!!! but I agree! I have a friend called kirsty who always signs her text messages ...*Kirst Same concept, but it works really well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phunkygal Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 Lmao! That was random!!! but I agree! I have a friend called kirsty who always signs her text messages ...*Kirst Same concept, but it works really well! yes i always have to add something mostly i sign my name luvluv, breana haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurygirl Posted August 20, 2007 Share Posted August 20, 2007 yes i always have to add something mostly i sign my nameluvluv, breana haha! I'm tragically unoriginal and just put a :-) after my name or for close friends and my boyfriend natz xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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