Pam Travers Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 OK, it may have been too early for you to move on before, but it's time now. There was rudeness on both sides and I think you'll both have to "deal with it." Look, no one says you (all) have to be lovey dovey on the MFC with everyone, but you (all) can at least be civil, and I'm seeing lots of un-civil behavior here. Pam, if you felt Violet was rude, there was absolutely no reason for you to reply the same way -- you can try to take the high road, which would have meant, in this case, not responding at all. And Violet, if Pam was annoying you, you too could have just ignored her. There is simply no reason to carry on like this in this thread, which is supposed to be about helping others who have issues/questions with the new forum features. i had issues and questions and then out of the blue she came, became all agressive as usual etc. SO we all agree she started it and we all agree im allowed to be myself and respond . im done now. back to the new stuff... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allegra Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 please how we can erase bad tags (offensive, bad words, etcetera)? thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Romis Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 i had issues and questions and then out of the blue she came, became all agressive as usual etc. SO we all agree she started it and we all agree im allowed to be myself and respond . im done now. back to the new stuff... she started? You started? I thought I was the one who started it, glad to know I'm not! Pffff ***relieved** Be yourself, nobody told you the contrary Back to the new stuff... wait, there is an old stuff that would suit you well! It's the PM's No sarcasm behind that. They're useful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dcdeb Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 pleasehow we can erase bad tags (offensive, bad words, etcetera)? thanks Allegra, I'm not sure if this is just a mod function, or if you can do it, too. But at the bottom of each page, there should be a line that says "Tags." On the far right of that line, I see a link that says "Edit Tags", which allows me to delete tags or change them. Do you see that? If so, you can edit them... if not, then you'll have to ask a mod to do so. And as a side note -- could I ask that you all try to restrain yourselves from getting too carried with the tags? I mean, I know the Aussies are going nuts in their thread but I mean, just in all the other threads in general? dcdeb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lollipop Love Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 pleasehow we can erase bad tags (offensive, bad words, etcetera)? thanks you can't erase tags posted by others, just tags posted by you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allegra Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 you can't erase tags posted by others, just tags posted by you sorry, but this it is not usefull because usually i dont do tags offensives... i'm not interested to erase tags posted by me anyway thank you very much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam Travers Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 I've been banned for showing a pattern of provokative and/or negative behaviour before, can't see what's wrong with VS suggesting the same should apply to Pam...at least this time it would be true thats what i call provocation maybe you didnt steal your ban then, and should get one again- since you think its cool to mention who should get one- lets remember that my last ban was a pornographic one, not a ban because i insulted or provocated anyone... i dont get provocative people at all, whatever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sienna Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Okay gonna edit my post here, I'm just generally effing annoyed at the moment, no need to get into a fist fight though. I agree. I really can’t see why it should be a problem with someone visiting anyone’s profile; it’s quite natural, see Wendi’s posts earlier. Usually I don’t jump in and say what I think about a conflict but in this case there’s no way I can keep quiet. Pam….why is it such a big deal for you when someone is visiting your profile, I would really like to know! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam Travers Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 And as a side note -- could I ask that you all try to restrain yourselves from getting too carried with the tags? I mean, I know the Aussies are going nuts in their thread but I mean, just in all the other threads in general? dcdeb i think there is gonna be a big issue with the tags Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kata Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 thats what i call provocation maybe you didnt steal your ban then, and should get one again- since you think its cool to mention who should get one- lets remember that my last ban was a pornographic one, not a ban because i insulted or provocated anyone... i dont get provocative people at all, whatever. okay you caught the post before I managed to edit it. Not gonna have a public fight, I simply just don't like your attitude and practically all your posts annoy the hell out of me - so welcome to my ignore list! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niki27 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 thats what i call provocation maybe you didnt steal your ban then, and should get one again- since you think its cool to mention who should get one- lets remember that my last ban was a pornographic one, not a ban because i insulted or provocated anyone... i dont get provocative people at all, whatever. If you and Kata have a problem, could you please sort it out by PM please? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlau_20zr Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 hiii how many tags can have a thread?? 5 or something it`s ok? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lollipop Love Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 sorry, but this it is not usefull because usually i dont do tags offensives... i'm not interested to erase tags posted by me anyway thank you very much I know but is like the user posts, you can't erase others post, same thing to the tags. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam Travers Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 (edited) I agree.I really can’t see why it should be a problem with someone visiting anyone’s profile; it’s quite natural, see Wendi’s posts earlier. Usually I don’t jump in and say what I think about a conflict but in this case there’s no way I can keep quiet. Pam….why is it such a big deal for you when someone is visiting your profile, I would really like to know! it is not, im sorry but i dont feel like rewriting everything i already said. i just dont understand people who openly say they dislike me, then go on my profile like violet_sky, whats the sense of it, you know? but thats not a problem since there is nothing on it and we have found a solution now to people who wanted to spam it...so thats all ok now, i was just trying to understand since i dont check people i dislike...thats all folks PS kata, you dont seem to ignore me....i dont like you either, falsly bored and rebel Edited October 14, 2008 by Pam Travers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allegra Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Allegra, I'm not sure if this is just a mod function, or if you can do it, too.But at the bottom of each page, there should be a line that says "Tags." On the far right of that line, I see a link that says "Edit Tags", which allows me to delete tags or change them. Do you see that? If so, you can edit them... if not, then you'll have to ask a mod to do so. And as a side note -- could I ask that you all try to restrain yourselves from getting too carried with the tags? I mean, I know the Aussies are going nuts in their thread but I mean, just in all the other threads in general? dcdeb thank you dear yes it is a mod function... we cannot erase... the bottons "edit tags" are not allowed for us. sorry i dont understand if your question is to me or to general people... i will ask to robi to explain me... at the moment there is a quite bad word in the italian thread and some of us we would like to erase it.... you know i like very much jocking...but why to joke in a vulgar way? i dont know... why all this negativity in this forum? maybe the abstinence of gigs and songs? these 3 questions are retorical... not directed to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlau_20zr Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 calm down girls.... relax.. take it eassyyyy sorry lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allegra Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 RELAX take it easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyD Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 ha ha ha ha ...... with change comes conflict Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Niki27 Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 RELAX take it easy Wow, that's the rave version, isn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlindee Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 really? I suggest you could use that good'ol function too Pam and pms aswell here the main topic is: what the fvk these new functions are on MFC for?!? Exactly. Will facebook and myspace become useless now? And I am confuzzled about the features already:naughty: Oh, and I like the tags of this thread, especially ''confused people'' and ''sh!t stirring''. They made me laugh:naughty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allegra Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Wow, that's the rave version, isn't it? yesse dodo dodo do dom dodo dodo do dom uaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa a aaaa a thank you niki and deb for the tags affair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlau_20zr Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Wow, that's the rave version, isn't it? lol yess but lets put some humour here if not in a while we`ll be an then :wheelchair: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sariflor Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 i had issues and questions and then out of the blue she came, became all agressive as usual etc. SO we all agree she started it and we all agree im allowed to be myself and respond . im done now. back to the new stuff... thats what i call provocation maybe you didnt steal your ban then, and should get one again- since you think its cool to mention who should get one- lets remember that my last ban was a pornographic one, not a ban because i insulted or provocated anyone... i dont get provocative people at all, whatever. Reading all these posts has made me angry. I find it majorly unfair that, violet_sky being one of the most peaceful, understanding and generally nicest people on this board, some other member who is often aggressive, insulting and plain rude (because let's face it, that is what you are like most of the time, Pam) is allowed to come in, say all those things, and then the response is to "take it to pm as it's a private matter". No, I don't think that it's a private matter. Why are we tiptoeing around it? Fact is, Pam is very often very aggressive and unpleasant with people. One could even say that this is how she is all the time, with a few exceptions. She's being openly difficult, and quite frankly, I think that by minimising this incident, that type of behaviour is being condoned. Some of us have been accused of bullying or victimising for far less. Why is she allowed to do this? As someone said, this is a social site, so if you can't or won't deal with it, then you can take your bad moods elsewhere. There is a line, and I feel that Pam crosses it all the time, and now other innocent people who have just had enough, and reached the end of their tether, are put in the same basket. Wrong . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendi Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 lolyess but lets put some humour here if not in a while we`ll be an then :wheelchair: I am already!!!!! :roftl: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlindee Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Reading all these posts has made me angry. I find it majorly unfair that, violet_sky being one of the most peaceful, understanding and generally nicest people on this board, some other member who is often aggressive, insulting and plain rude (because let's face it, that is what you are like most of the time, Pam) is allowed to come in, say all those things, and then the response is to "take it to pm as it's a private matter". No, I don't think that it's a private matter. Why are we tiptoeing around it? Fact is, Pam is very often very aggressive and unpleasant with people. One could even say that this is how she is all the time, with a few exceptions. She's being openly difficult, and quite frankly, I think that by minimising this incident, that type of behaviour is being condoned. Some of us have been accused of bullying or victimising for far less. Why is she allowed to do this? As someone said, this is a social site, so if you can't or won't deal with it, then you can take your bad moods elsewhere. There is a line, and I feel that Pam crosses it all the time, and now other innocent people who have just had enough, and reached the end of their tether, are put in the same basket. Wrong . I agree! I was just about to say something about it, but I can't add anything more. You put it really well.:naughty:It may sound rude, but it's the truth. I am already!!!!! You look very good for your age:wink2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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